So I just realized I might be in love with my guy best friend and I don’t know if I should talk with my girl best friend about this or if I should shut up and try to forget about what I’m feeling. It makes me slap myself for having feelings for him because he’s a complete idiot (not literally), I mean he’s my best friend yk but I can’t stop thinking about kissing him whenever we’re hanging out and I can’t stop thinking about him, just him, the way he talks, the way he acts, even the way he looks at me. Every time he’s getting close to me or makes eye contact with me I get a little nervous and I can’t hold the eye contact for too long and aaaaaaa he’s soo fucking annoying…
I’m scared that if I tell him something about this he’ll reject me and he’ll get cold and I’ll lose him as a friend as well and I don’t want that…so what am I supposed to do? Should I talk with my girl best friend or should I just not say anything?..
Wadapaav @therealwadapaav
Be sure if this is just a crush or do you really love him. After a point when sure, do confess. There’s a chance that maybe he likes u too
This is not just a crush, I know that, and I know he did liked me before but at that time I wasn’t feeling almost anything for him so I refused him so we stayed friends, but idk of he still feels the same or not cause it’s been a while since he told me he likes me…
Wadapaav @therealwadapaav
Try expressing yourself rather than asking him out. If he feels the same you can date but if not make sure that your confession shouldn’t change anything.
Wdym by expressing myself?
Wadapaav @therealwadapaav
Tell him exactly what you have thought. The one you have posted. The first one
That’s the exact answer I was afraid to see, I mean it’s really hard to tell him those things and honestly I don’t think I can tell him any of this because I’m an idiot and I refused him in the past so maybe this is karma