so I have this online guy bsf right. he’s kinda shy at times but also confident. he gives me these sweet paragraphs and said that he has a soft spot for me. BUT. I always have to be the one to text first or we don’t talk for months. And sometimes he can be dry but he’s not as dry to me as he is to others? He talks about him being in my future and sometimes he just gives me mixed signals/ emotions whatever and it’s really confusing omg. AND IDK HOW HE FEELS ABOUT ME. AND IDK WHETHER I LIKE HIM AS A BSF OR AS A CRUSH? HE TELLS ME HIS FAVOURITE STUFF AND WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENS IN HIS LIFE LIKE IM ACTUALLY IN IT? BUT IDKK
If you wanna know how he feels about you, ask him. If he cares about you, he will answer truly, and try to be gentle with your feelings. Or at times you feel like he’s dry and you wonder why, ask him why he is, or tell him that you feel like he is being dry. Not aggressively, just in a normal, respectful way. I believe he will tell you his reasons, whatever they may be, or that he didn’t even feel like he was being dry. I wish you the best, just know you deserve to be happy in a friendship or any relationship, not be left guessing :)
