So I have a friendā¦weāre friends since childhoodā¦sheās a realistic person or I can say I donno what kinda person she isā¦she never opens up with meā¦its been years and years I tried but I always feel some distant or tension between usā¦yeah it is weird as it sounds weāve been friends since childhood but I rarely know things about herā¦we do thingsā¦we do laugh togetherā¦but I always zhink before I speak to herā¦doesnāt friendship means zo be with someone with whom you can talk about anything and everything? But in pur case uts differentā¦she never shares anything with meā¦she always calls me with names like du mb anno ying stu pid and stuff but I really never mind because friends call each other with these namesā¦but sometimes I really feel like Iām du mbā¦like she gets annoyed when she talks with meā¦Iāve tried to get distance with her because thereās no need to be with someone where you feel like youāre burden to themā¦so I started to make distance between usā¦but there she donāt even let me goā¦even if I stop talking with her for weeksā¦sheād always show upā¦its so confusingā¦why am I being like this??ššš
Okay see, itās not that sheās a bad friend or something, like some people are built like that, you canāt just change them.
And keeping distance between you two, see the thing is, being totally distant will not help anyone, keeping safe distance will.
Like be there for her whe she needs you, Iām sure that sheāll be also there for you when you need her.
Try keeping safe distance, sheās your childhood friend, and let that go.
See everyoneās definition of friendship is different, in this case itās kinda opposite so, make some new friends too. But try to handle it with care.
Thatās what Iām doingā¦you know even If I try to make some distance between us it never workedā¦its just sometimes I want to know her betterā¦about her likes and dislikesā¦and stuffā¦but I canāt force anyone rightā¦so I just go with the flowā¦I hope someday sheāll tell me about herselfā¦also Iām not good with wordsā¦may be its my fault that people never felt comfortable enough to share thingsā¦but I just want to be there for herā¦whenever I ask her about her day or howās sheās doingā¦she gets angry because she doesnāt like this questionsā¦so Iāve even stopped askingā¦but okay its hard to leave herā¦and even harder to make her understand meā¦sheās someone I can never ever be able to let goā¦so Iāll just wait until she realizesā¦btw thank you for your responseā¦it means alot
Itās okay man, I can understand itās similar to what Iām going through right now.
Itās hard to let go that one person, itās okay you donāt have to do it. Youāll just have to go with the flow, donāt think about it too much, make new friends, enjoy your life, be there for your childhood friend, itās a bond that you should cherish.
Ahhh yeesss youāre absolutely rightā¦Iāll try my bestā¦thanks alot buddyā¦I hope youād be able to solve your problems tooā¦best of luckā¦btw If you wanna shareā¦feel free to vent it outā¦š„ŗthank you for giving me hope
