So I have a ‘best friend’ of over a year .
But she always make me feel bad about the things I am passionate about, and I have never judged her for her goals . Not only this she also makes me feel bad about my complexion, weight, height, academic skills, and art skills.
I have always hyped her up for everything and even during this pandemic I went to her with few things that she loved, like skincare and cake, when she was going through a breakup. Not only this I have done dozens of other things for her but at the end of the day she say that ‘I didn’t do anything for her or I don’t care about her’.
Even though we talk on video calls for more than 2 hours , multiple times in a week.
She says that I am too busy in my life , when she clearly knows I am suffering from severe anxiety and depression but instead makes me feel bad for having those.
I know that this is toxic behaviour but she is the only person I talk to and I don’t know what to do.
You know, i ve never categorized someone as a best friend that soon. All 4 of my best friends, we know each other for the last 14-15 years or so. I mean its different for different people, but still I find 1 year on the shorter side to know if you can categorize the person as your best friend.
We as best friends have never stabbed each others in the back, yes we joke around a lot, we ve had fights but never had bad intentions for the other one. If even after knowing that you face certain issues, this is how she behaves, i think you deserve better people in life.
Jazz @thesadsoul
U need someone jo apko smjhe… dekho har relation give and take pe chlta h… jo apko motivate ni kr skte kahan k best friends… mzak msti me chedhna alg bat h… but kisi ko uski looks pe boltr rhna ye frndz kbhi ni krte…wo toh ek dusre ko lift krte hai jaise tum krte ho uske liye…u deserve the same… u need new friends…jo tumhe judge na krein… motivate krein… Success apki company pe depend krti hai…agr apki company aisi ho jo logon k sath apni problem na share kr pao like anxiety nd all usko tum best frnd ni kh skte ok… Aise logo k sath thoda apna effort km krke dekho usko frk pdhta hai? Wo try kregi jaise ap krte ho?? Agr nhi kregi aur ap hi ko blame kri jayegi toh apko apka answer mil jayega… Test her once…
Man she toxic
First of all if she has problems with your weight height complexion etc she isn’t your best friend. Second you have supported her during her break up phase and she should be grateful and thankful. Third she’s just using you doing time pass till she finds handsome rich guy to date with this might sound rude u may get hurt but this is the truth bro digest it and move on or at least don’t attach yourself to her emotionally. I hope this helps you.tc
