See buddy, if you think happiness comes principly from human relationships, then you are wrong, god placed it all around us, in anything we can experience, you just need to change the way you look at things, and I'm sorry for the all the shit you had to deal with, just know you're a great & worthy person, you hadn't done anything wrong, it's just some people changes and turns out to be toxic, bad people come at good time, good people come at bad time, you can't always emotionally available to everyone. You need to prioritize yourself above everyone. Trynna love yourself, take care of yourself, make yourself worthy of self love, and just take a pause from all this shit. Give yourself all the love and care you deserve, meditate, drink alot of water, exercise, study and have fun in life, stay happy stay strong and keep shining buddy✨

He ditched me in friendship 

Friends

I don't think I can ever get over him. 

Exhausted

I'm feeling confused. 

I am in a happy relationship for the past 3 years. But right now, we are into long distance. I met one guy at an event. We started meeting just to chill because I am new in the city and he is my only friend and I am introvert, I take time to make friends. Once we met at his place and after a long talk and hooked up. 
I still love my boyfriend but I didn't feel guilty about it or anything. I felt good, I don't know why. 
But from the past few days, while talking to my boyfriend I feel a bit guilty and bad. However, I wanna hook up with that guy again. I don't know why, It's making me feel good about myself. I don't know, this never happened to me. Ever! 
I was always into relationships, never did something like this. I am continuous, thinking about all this. What to do? I really love my boyfriend and we are really happy in our relationship. I don't know why this is happening. 
Am I a sex addict or something? 
I know, I am doing something wrong. But it feels good to hook up. Something I feel I am doing something for me which is making me happy. 
What to do? 

Long Distance Relationship

lam in very big confusion. My parents has fixed one allaince for me for marriage. But i just broke up with my bf a month ago. He used to get money from people for debt but will barely return them money. Thats the reason for our break up. But except money thing, he used to treat me better and I was always free in that relationship without any barriers. lam having oscillation between fiance and my bf. I feel like i still have feelings for my bf and whenever i see him I feel like to hug him. Also my fiance is also good. He is having basic good qualities.
Also i feel like no one will marry my bf if iam not marrying him as he has bad name in the city because of money problem. Without money thing he is a very good guy. Please help me to sort it out. Im tired of crying

Marriage

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. He was my everything. I broke up wdh him because he didn't treat me well..we got into a silly argument where I was telling him that his actions hurt me and he was instead of apologizing keep justifying why my feelings are wrong and why he is right in what he did.
It's hard to ignore him. My parents have always told me don't go to the place where your feelings are not respected. I don't wanna go back to him but I really loved him and I'm not able to stop myself from texting him. Please suggest me few ways in which I can get over him and not go back running to him. 

Breakup

I have been in a relationship since highschool and I screwed it all up just because I had feelings on a guy. We were on a break and I went on to the other guy and we flirted. I wanted to hook up with him but then before doing all that I told my ex that I flirted and let him talk to me that way. It broke him. Gave him anxiety and I just hate myself for doin that to him. I am unable to give the other guy up. And I'm unable to get over my ex. My ex wants me to block him but I can't just do that. I hate myself for feeling this way. I am jus the most selfish. I don't know wat to do. I really love my ex. He is the most perfect guy. I just have feelings for the other guy which would fade away. Idk I broke the trust. I don't deserve him.

Love

i had a guy friend we used to talk a lot then gradually we came too close and started sharing our feelings with each other after kuch months i fell in love with him as i never believed in these kind of stuff like love or something but i started having feelings for him , i shared it with him and found ki he also had same feelings but we were not ready to convert things into relationship too fast so we decided to know each other more deeply. Now , everything was going cute... one day we had some misunderstanding between us which was due to a chat with my girl friend so i just cleared it all and he understood what all happened after that the things became normal.
 ab ek din we were on call and he shared with me ki i like my best friend since 2 years and started praising her i was like okay and had feelings ki maybe not more than me hehehe so i didn't comment further. and then i didn't feel the same vibes from him which i used to get from him before i asked many times ki kya hogaya so he says my mood is not high these days so it was completely alright ab the next day he asked for virtual stuff moreover virtual sex i said no its not possible wo sab smjha and then one day he said i won't be able to talk coz i have to focus on my studies etc etc and now i don't want to rise your hopes and i never wanted a relationship i had a covo with my sister she said relationships never work and i might try being like my ex ( his ex ditched him long before) and then he continued ki merese nhi hopaaegaa uske jaise banna neither my ethics point at that way. after saying this i was confused kyunki next to next day he again texted me ki talk to me then we had a talk and then after that idk why he blocked me from everywhere. I M REGRETTING KI WHY DID I SHARE THAT BOND WITH HIM JISSME KABHI TOH DONO TARAF SE SAME EFFORTS THE BUT AFTER THAT ONLY ONE SIDED... I REALLY WAS IN LOVE AND STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT I AM UNABLE TO ACCEPT THAT HE IS GONE, whenever we used to talk i used to ask ki " do you still feel the same as i feel for you and he always said YESS and mene humesha ussee bola ki sab mujhse duur chale gaye .. please tum mat jaanaa me seh nhi paaungi and tab bhi he said ki i will never leave youuu sweetheart" JUST HOPING KI HE WILL MESSAGE ME AGAIN AND THAT TIME I WON'T LET HIM GO. I REALLY DON'T HAVE FRIENDS I WAS INTO HIM FOR SO LONG AND PREVIOUSLY ALSO MY FRIENDS WERE ALWAYS BUSY IN MAKING THERE LOVE LIFE SO I DISTANCED MYSELF FROM THEM. I AM REALLY CONFUSED BARELY INTERESTED IN OTHER STUFFS. (ik this post is quiet long but i poured out my feelings)


My boyfriend thinks I don't love him enough just because i can't pick up his phone all the times. We are students and my family don't know about him so i can't pick up his call EVERYTIME but i pick up and talk to him whenever i can.. and he also don't understand this and used to call me 5-6 times a day either to bring me online on WhatsApp or to talk for 1-2 hours. 
He once said to me that he loves his brother (brothers type of love) more than me because if any emergency happens his brother will come all way from Baroda not me. He even said that if his brother will say him not to marry me, he'll not marry. 
IDK am i that bad and non worthy that he'll take his brother permission to marry me or not? 

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