So i am meeting a guy. In the third meeting he asked me to kiss me and i said no because i was not feeling it then he didn’t kiss me… then after 2 days, in the night i was on call with him he was asking all these these things like do you want to kiss me and all and i said no because i was shy but i really like him… i even denied to hug and cuddle yr… for me it’s too soon.
Now he is not talking to me like he is replying late not talking to me in the night… what do i do now? Is he upset??
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If he is someone who reacts like that then better stay away, if someone really likes u and values you he will wait till your comfortable and wont be upset because of that, talk openly once and say your not ready yet, if he is willing to wait good if he is not then its not worth it…u dont have to agree or pressured to be physical when u dont like it…value urself more
He doesn’t love me or i don’t love him… it just infatuation… i also want it but i have never done it so i am a bit shy… i don’t know if he gets it or not… he is not asking me to have sex it was just a kiss… may be he is just embarrassed because he asked it for 3 4 times and i denied
That’s what he was doing… but i couldn’t do it… like i wanted him to say those things but i didn’t say it back and i called him a kid for doing that… then he hung up and from that day he is not talking to me on the call
I won’t do that
The other person should respect your decision. If he is held onto it then it’s not a good sign. Better stay safe .
Red flag! Don’t let someone push you into doing something that you’re not comfortable with. Take your time in getting to know him but be careful with this one. Never let a man control or manipulate you. There are plenty of good guys out there who will be willing to wait with you. Don’t get attached to someone who doesn’t respect or value you and is only looking to get his physical needs met. Hope you make the right decision.
Yep… thanks 😊
