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So I am in a serious relationship with him,we are going to complete 2 yr together next month,we were totally in love until today when he talked about separation after the fight we had in past 2 days. He thinks the relationship is getting toxic, but I don’t think the same I feel it’s just some problems and misunderstandings that is creating distance. I am feeling a lot of emotions all together and have no one to talk to about this…what should I do…🥺

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Anonymous

Just have a nice talk with him. Even after this he feels that the relation is toxic then let him go. You will find someone better.

Anonymous

We tried talking but…he says he needs to think upon it🥺

Anonymous

Okay then give him some time to think. If he really loves you then he would never think to end a relationship with you. Just remember this…

Anonymous

You are right 🙁
the fact that we are in long distance relationship… I’ll have to go back within a week and we won’t get to meet for months again… we he doesn’t talk I’ll have to go back 🥺

Anonymous

Listen. Listen to me. Sometimes you have to put a little more efforts. Dont listen to ever advice you get on this app.

Anonymous

But I have put a lot of efforts already 🥺😭

Anonymous

Do you actually want to be with him or are you just scared to be alone again? Sometimes the right thing is to distant yourself. Evaluate the situation. See if its worth it. If you have put alot of efforts already and dont to anymore then you know what you have to do.

Anonymous

I am ready to put effort…all I want is that he should put a little more effort 🥺 I love home and I know that he too loves me a lot.

Anonymous

You do your part well. Just dont loose your self respect. Try to talk it out like poper human beings and if hes rude to you or you dont feel good then ghost him for a few days and see whether he is putting efforts or not. Evaluate the situation. Sometimes guys just have a dip in their testosterone levels and they get irritated easily. It simply might be that and youre overthinking. Tell him ehat you want from him directly and of he doesn’t change then the sooner you leave the more pain you save yourself from. And please keep me updated on telegram. Ill give my id if you want

Anonymous

Ok