So i am in a post breakup stage. I am trying to moveon and somethimes get stuck by his thoughts or recently i am waiting outside my home to see him cross( bcz i knw his route).
I really dont know what actually i want.
I know people talk about the after breakup maths but i am ahead of this but not in a stage of complete freedom.
The frustration of being in the middle is really tiring.
It would require time to heal and move on. Meanwhile try to be engaged with other people. Surround yourself with things that would make your mind engaged. Don’t pity yourself and don’t let others pity you. You took a bold, strong decision and it will help you in your future.
It will definitely take some time. But you will be happier than before. I guarantee it. Invest time on yourself. Do what makes you feel alive. Follow your passion. It can be anything. Cooking, reading, painting etc. Block him from all your social media account. And give time to yourself. For me solo trip worked as a healer. All the very best 👍😄