I think you should let him go if he is not sure about you. You’re better than that. And you have time to find someone who’ll be sure about you.

You yourself have the answer in the end. Isn’t it ? When you mentioned about red flags.
Don’t be that emotional fool, you are young and your mind is not matured enough but believe me down the line you’ll look back at this decision, you’ll glad that you took.

People understand the value of love over religion, money, approval of someone’s with time. Currently, I have a very similar situation. Your boyfriend is not courageous enough to fight for you and your relationship. He has to gather courage for the relationship and he will learn with time. If your love is true and he will come back to you and you will be together again.

He is just insecure give him some time relationship is big responsibility its normal ki wo is tarah se behave kar raha har koi dar jata hai hai itna bada decision lena majak nahi hai if he truly love you i just say give him some time support him believe in yourself stand with him but don’t get too attached if he is not capable for this you hurt lot

U said u r in college right so what u studying as?
And if he is not sure about future then that’s enough to leave him and trust me forcing someone to be in a relationship it won’t workout so better take decision and leave him if he really loves you then he will be back but don’t be in a relationship like that only… I know it hurts but it will heal you slowly

What are facing… is common… but u need to understand one fact this is not end of life … you have many good things to do which makes your mind think in positive way … also as you know his side is red flag… so no need to run for him … take a break…. Give rest to mind … for few days or hours in a day … you will over from from it