so a guy ive been very on and off with told me its time now to take a decision and i said i dont want to talk about all this over text and he immediately asked if i was free the next day, but he then didnt take any action and didnt reply

3am Thoughts

I am confused 😕 . I am in a moving on phase and somehow i ended up messaging him like for some urgent work. I thought it would be ended there. But in the morning he started his day as usual with wishing me. And now we are little bit of talking and i am taunting him indirectly but he is not reacting. What should i do ?

I went on a date yesterday with a guy. I met him on bumble and it was our first date. From my side it went pretty good 
We vibed together 
Had some beers 
Good food 
Good conversation 
And on our way back to home he said to me to guide the way without using maps. He said I'll follow your directions only and I can't use maps which i found out cute. 
He even shared his phone passcode with me 🥲 
And when we were coming back we kissed for a bit then he dropped me off. 
Ab idk if he would like to go on a second one or not?? 

Crush

Getting ignored by the only person i give all the attention to and now overthinking scared that he's gonna leave me that thought killing me i m not good enough and this happening with me second time i give my life a second chance and still hurting me where i was wrong?

Just told my boyfriend I can’t see him anymore. I’m a guy. I thought I was pretty much over the guilt and shame, but it came attacking so bad again. Feeling a fair amount of grief combined with it. I feel trapped because I’d love to see him but the guilt and shame are extreme. I don’t have money for therapy and none of my friends and family support my decision, so I pretty much don’t have anyone to help me through this.

LGBTQ

I've never been prioritised, no one ever put me first, not my parents, not my friends, In one or other way everyone always made me feel like an outsider, For once I got a person who did give see me as a priority, and now he's away from me too. Without him I feel so alone, so empty, it's like he went away and he took the happiness with him. Now what I have left is hope, Hope of him coming back

Got of frm a serious relationship. Aftr giving him unlimited chances finally I realised tht this cnt happen. It’s been a week no contact frm my side, suddenly able to see all the red flags in him which I avoided. 

Relationships

I am 29 years Old woman I am in love with 43 old guy . He also loves me he is not married I am also not married I like to marry him he also wants to marry me I don’t care what society , friends, relatives think about us . Thing is  I don’t have father I don’t know what my mom thinks  About my relationship I am afraid to tell her about my relationship  I really love him we are dating now I am happy with him . I am afraid to tell to my mom .I don’t know how she will react and my relatives are asking my mom when will your daughter get married ,  Are you looking matchs for your daughter ,  my relatives keep on asking my mom . I don’t know what to do  

I am, so through with everything. 

My relationship feels so strong yet so weak. I can’t stand my fiancé but I love him. It’s so hard being so torn because he makes me feel worthless, everything else in his life takes priority, his work, his friends, his vehicle. I am just, not enough? But I know I am enough... I do so much for this man, I treat him, I let him do what he wants, I pay attention to him, I want nothing more than to be his everything. I just don’t think I am. 

I am much more expressive than him anyway but this isn’t the issue. There is just **no** attention whatsoever, he has to be distracted by something when he is with me. He has to be on his phone ‘working’ or watching TV. He can’t stand having a conversation, he won’t just grab me and cuddle me or kiss me or tell me he loves me. It just feels like I’m with a FWB, not someone who is (apparently) willing to spend the rest of his life with me. God, I’m *so* upset. It’s really taken a toll on me today, I ask him to not go out for the day with his two friends and one of their girlfriends but apparently he had to just leave his fiancé for them today. So now I’ve been sat here, for nearly 5 hours in my own in our lonely house. This house doesn’t even huddle like a home because he’s never in it, and when he is here he’s asleep in bed because he’s so tired from work, and I get that because his job is manual-but no time is made for me. Him going out today has just proven to me that it isn’t that work is tiring him out, as he has time for other people. His issue is spending time with me, the girl that pays his bills when he can’t, covers for him when he needs me to, does everything EVERYTHING for him but he can’t stand spending any one on one time with me. 

I can’t even express how frustrated and upset I am. I love this house, I love my cat that lives with us and I love the thought of being with this man for the rest of my life, but I also really...don’t. I don’t want to wake up everyday feeling this way, exhausted with how much effort I make for someone that can’t even reciprocate it; I genuinely do not think I’m asking for much... or maybe I am because you know, for 6 whole years he’s not managed to pull through. I don’t want to lose him but I’m also thinking maybe I have to, to make myself happy. 

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