Sinking in marriage. It's been 4 years since we get married my husband never gives money to me every time I want money I want to ask my husband or my mom in law. It feels so annoying to ask my mom in law.. we fought even today for this. He is not understanding husband.. I feel like leaving this world 😢

Breakup

Hi, do anyone of you feeling irritated when your husband or wife praise or show more affectionate to their siblings? 

Love marriages after 5years long distance relationship.
Married on Feb 2022 and I'm staying with in laws. 

I planned to apply oversea job since we still young and no child yet. Not even apply overseas job but my husband said no, don't find one because he want to take care his sister and can't move very far from his family!!!! 

I'm (27yo) feels that my husband(31yo, first child) loves and care his sister (20yo, last child) more than me. At least my SIL have both parents alive and 2 brothers to take care of her! 

I have left my family, my hometown, my friends, my car and my freedom for my husband. The only person I depend on, love, trust is my husband. 

I really feels jealous when I see their brother-sister bonding. I feels like I'm not important to anyone! I share everything including myself to my husband but still he will choose his sister/family! 

I have to wake up early, I help my MIL to clean house, bath then breakfast start WFH then 6pm bath, pray and eat dinner and back to WFH then sleep! This is my daily life routine here! I don't just a routine when I was single staying my parents! 

Sometimes I can't tolerate his sister's attitude-wake up late, sleep late, not pickup rubbish, not clearing rubbish bin, why can't she don't simple housework.

I have sisters and no brothers but IF there is any situation comes to choose between sister or husband,  for sure I choose my HUSBAND! 

Just need a place to vent all this! Take care 🥲 




Family

Hi guys honest opinions please! 
So I got married last year and started living with my husband and inlaws, few months went well and after sometime I got to know my mil has got numerous affairs (she and my fil are divorced) my mil would stay away from the house for days etc and when the relationship would end shed come back home and starts dictating in the house for instance she would come back and start switching off and on the fan/ radiator etc she would start throwing stuff away from the fridges etc and soon as she’d find another man she goes away from the house for days again and start living two lives as in one with that guy in his house and other in the house that we live in, is that acceptable? My husband tried explaining her how wrong it is but then she brings that THIS IS MY HOUSE ID DO WHATEVER I WANT. I find it very disrespectful, my parents don’t know how my mil is carrying on like this, we come from a respectable Muslim family where these are considered abnormal. I’m sick and tired of this toxic home environment, the property we live in is my Fil’s which my mil says is hers and my FIL doesn’t do anything about it. I’m sick and tired of pretending that this all is okay. Idk what to do now cuz I can’t live in such an environment anymore. There’s so much to this story!!! What do you guys think I should do? 

Anxiety

I have my wedding tomorrow. 
I don't feel like going.  

Adulting

I waited  for him for 6 years... at last i left  alone.... every time i him as my priority... now its time for marriage..he choose his family decision as final.. and left me in pain.. how can i get out of it... i can't  even control myself for crying... how can i make myself to ve life alone without him

Hi all . I am married for 8 years with 2 children . I am at the border line to get yelled out because of the tortures faced by my mother in law and the triggers she gives to my husband to beat me. My husband does nothing at home when we were in a joined family ( he , his 2 brothers) . I used to struggle with 2 kids with 2 c sections done . My mother in law is a good actor and very talented . She shows off her talents everywhere which was very visible to me . She acts as if she takes care of me in front of my husband . She supports her elder daughter in law just because she got screwed up from her elder son once for scolding her. She scolds me in front of everybody’. Everything I shared to my husband for which he said me to ignore . But now the problem has raised to a level where he beats me for everything in front of everybody if he thinks he can’t control me . My mom once came home and questioned them but she was ill treated and accused me of a bad grown up. All the maid who was there opened everything how my kids were treated and how elder sons kids were treated .  She has once strongly said ‘ get out of the house ‘. So I moved out for which all blame came to me because they turned the things against me to my husband . He begged me to come back saying we have a 3 floor house ready and we can move there . And then we moved but problems dint vanish because they were put up in ground floors and we were at 1 st floor . Mother in law used to cook for his first and third sons but not for us . We kept a maid to cook and take care of the kids because I was working that time . And she made sure that my husband alone was getting necessary food items he likes. His elder brothers wife doesn’t cook at all , doesn’t take care of her kids . It’s all my mother in law who cooks for them and takes care of them. But not a 1% she took care of my kids . All these my husband know. Sometimes he asks me to cook for his mother and I have did . Once when I dint he took the entire food and gave his mom and left me nothing. It has become very normal that he can beat me , abuse with words saying my family as prostitute family . I don have father for the past 9 years . There is nobody to support me from my side . Now we are in USA , he is trying all possible tries to bring his family here . I am now ready to get separated from him . I am a bold girl as always but I am so scared in this matter . It is now like I am all alone Suffering with 2 kids . 

Domestic Abuse

Marriage: husband sister in laws mother in law 
Neighbours
That's wt I am gng through

Marriage

What to do if relationship with husband is becoming worse day by day . He wakes up eats breakfast gets ready for office ,leaves by 9.30. Comes back at 8.watches few serials ,has his dinner .goes into his room to browse his phone . Thts his daily schedule. If I talk about something,he says he is tired from office work and needs rest. We have two kids .I sleep with kids and he sleeps alone in another room. I’m feeling very lonely . I watch kids 24hrs . He doesn’t even ask if I ate /or offer to hold kid while I’m eating (I have to hold her and eat while she keeps trying to pull my plate ) he doesn’t give me any money for my personal use .every time I ask something he would say he has no money but he keeps buying stuff for himself . These are few things. I have no one to talk to . No one to share my feelings. I’m too exhausted physically and mentally.  

Lonely

I’m married since a year. Been living with my in-laws for 4 months. They are generally nice and don’t mistreat me but I’m someone who’s lived alone or in a hostel for the last ten years so it’s been quite a bit of culture shock and I don’t feel supported by my husband. Please give me tips to be happy here and live with them amicably

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