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Anonymous

Since frm 5 yrs i’m in long distance relationship …earlier everthing was fine…he is very nice person,he never shout’s on me nor he fight’s wth me nd never he has abused me by saying anything harsh…he makes me calm ,he support me a lot…but frm few months i feel like he is cheating on me…i had asked him several time whether he is having an affair or not but he always deny…but frm few days nothing is being r8…daily i have fight wth him ,i don’t even talk to him nicely but even though he is making me calm nd telling me not to overthink…ya i overthink a lot…i’m so frusted frm few days…i told him to brkup wth me but he is not leaving me he says he love’s me nd he is not going anywhere,he says i should talk to him nd share my prblm wht i’m feeling & which thing is bothering me …daily i’m crying …i want to be happy …i want to leave him but i don’t want to leave him…i’m so frusted …i’m not understanding whether he is cheating on me or not …he loves me or not…i’m so confused nd frusted plz help me out of this …

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@sinan

If it helps, I’m all ears buddy.
I tend to overthink a lot. But hey, talk to him in person. Hopefully, you’ll happy at the end.

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Anonymous

Hey thanx for ur suggession 🥰

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Anonymous

Hey its just your insecurities clouding your judgement … Trust is the key , talk to him and tell him what you are feeling even if he doesn’t come forward and ask. Since you are in a long distance relationship insecurity plays a major role in this situation. Go with what your mind says hearts are just muscles , mind is the only involved organ. Since you have been together for 5 years that mutual understanding should be present . If he ignores you or texts you very casually and you see that that there is a difference in the conversations you had in the past vs now , you understand there is a good chance you are drifting away so keep those convos intact . I suggest not to take any actions without being sure of the happenings. If everything is the same as before , you have absolutely nothing to worry about . He loves you . dont overthink it much it only increases the insecurities inside you … All the best !❤️

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Anonymous

Yaa ur r8…but their is no change in our conversation…he replies to my msgs in within a sec…nd whenever he is free frm his works he call me…nd when i call him he receive it even though he is busy he talk to me…he take’s care of me a lot…but i don’t know why i’m so frusted & overthink a lot…what should i do …

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Anonymous

You should just try and enjoy the fact that he cares …nit everyone is lucky enough to get that and the frustration ,it is just because of the distance and not being able to be with him, its natural…make as much memories as possible when you meet so you can cherish them and keep them close to your heart and tell him what you feel ,its important . take care ❤️

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Anonymous

Thank uhh soo much for ur advice 🥰

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