depends on what happened exactly
Ok so to cut it short we’ve been friends for 4 month and then he got a girlfriend and she didn’t feel comfortable with us texting and i miss him and want to keep being friends so I’m thinking about reading out one last time
okay and have you approched him before ?
We didn’t talk for like 2 month because I was like yeah I shouldn’t bother him and get him in trouble with his girlfriend and it gets harder cause he was like my best friend so yeah…
then toh you should try it! like your intensions are not bad and you just don’t want that friendship to end and here i thing you have right to do this even if for the sake of friendship you had!
Yeah I really want to but am scared of rejection and don’t want him to don’t like me anymore cause I’m clingy or so…
I kind of thought he would text me today cause it’s a special day for me but he didn’t so I wanted to text him and that’s why I asked and I’m not sure what to text…
just start with simple “hi” and make sure this is last time!
atleast you’ll not regret it later in life!
But last time I poured my heart out it didn’t went Soo good cause the girlfriend got insecure and cried…
And i don’t want to hurt them more but also wanna be friends…
actually miss/sir, its not dumb, not talking to 2 months straight and suddenly pouring out everything can mess it all up, keeping it subtle and considering it as a new start, keeping things low key is the best in my perspective, you might have different perspective and its not a problem atleast don’t put others down clashing their conversation and judging the comments there, please try to understand it first :)
(for third person here)
Yeah sounds reasonable… But what should I text?
Like a simple hi or i missed you or more like hey long time no talk how u doing…
i think hey how you doing will work
Ok I’m gonna text it in nervous as fuck maybe I shouldn’t text him
The thought is good but the action is difficult…
i understand! but this is so that you’ll never thing about it again, either you’ll win and stay or you’ll learn and move, no failure
all the best :)
Yeah… Thank you
But I have feelings for him and he had for me so that what it makes even harder…
oh man! so that is a reason he is trying to keep you at distance ?😥
Yeah… But I told him that I’m ok with being friends as long as we still talk but his girlfriend isn’t comfortable with that so yeah…
*wasn’t
now that’s the real problem
Yeah…
Should I still text or just leave him alone
after knowing all this if he choose to not keep anything with you there might be something there, and as you said he liked you too then it might be hard for him as well, so i’ll say you should move on leaving them alone, as you know that your presence will create differences between then and you seem a good person, let them be happy in their life, if he actually consider you something, he will make a way to you in future if not don’t let yourself doing as a side character, you are important too, and you too deserve love care and importance, so let them go! and live your life peacefully becoz then if something will happen then they’ll blame you and that’s not at all acceptable so let them go :) hard but better for your and their happiness!
Ok thank you
Hey you are beautiful and strong! and the prettiest smile you have, look at you 😍 that is the person who deserve all of this love, care and attention :)
okay bye now i’ll not bother 😂😅
Thank you for helping me decide what i should do you really helped me a lot 🥰
Sorry it’s a bit late I just saw this comment
its totally fine! good wishes your way 🌼
