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Anonymous

SHOULD I GO OR NOT??

BACK STORY: Currently living in different states with our parents, both of us unemployed, n finally after 2weeks gonna re(start) our career… which also means atleast for few months not gonna meet or talk much (he is getting into 2 businesses which means gonna be super busy).

SITUATION: Before starting with hustle, we really wanna meet> spend few days together in peace (Last tym we only met for few hrs in rush).
🙃but we live with Indian parents, so obvsly can’t just go.

LOOPHOLE: M allowed to attend my frnd’s wedding (same state just 5hrs away) dated 17-21nov. In reality m 🙆 only invited for 20-21nov.

PLAN: On 17th morning ;after my parents set me off in train (to frndz place) I’ll board another train to his place (16-18hrs).
Be with him till 20th night, then leave for my frndz wedding.

😐 CONFUSION: My parents normally call atleast 6tyms a day…how m gonna tackle d noises when m in train, how m gonna lie/pretend about being in wedding for 4days… +MONEY… tickets, hotel!! (Still not earning >Last tym he spent ,so obvsly this tym I should> Cant use my cards cuz ghr pe msg jata h.)

😐 Should I go n meet him (cuz bhut mann h) but is it worthy to take risk (m I overthinking?)…Or let go this tym n see whether we meet in future.

Obvsly I need your advice
Ps. No offense but kiddos/teens maybe this tym plz dnt advice. I need mature people to tell me what to do.

Lastly, Thanks🙃 for reading

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Anonymous

yaaaarrr Thankyou thankyou so much for ur advice.
Tbh I posted this so that people could say 😅 don’t go (cuz m afraid of parents) but at d same tym Wanna meet him.
Yup m follow ur advices n lets hope for the best.
Just gotta figure out whom to ask for money

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