She proposed me . I did not love initially but gradually fell in love with her. We had a great connection, memory, bonding. I gave her freedom, liberty as I had 99.9 percent trust on her. I informed my family about her. But she cheated on me after 3 years . I tried and convinced a lot not to do this. 4-5 months I cried with her , persuaded her but in vain. Then I quit but always had a soft corner for her till today. Even her relationship with new guy also didn’t last for 3 month. After 1 year she talked with me and said sorry for all. We used to talk once or twice a month as just friend.but couldn’t talk like before with same feelings and emotion as I assume she doesn’t have love for me. But after 1 yr she suddenly tells that she wanna marry me and wants to be with me and also has informed her family regarding this and asks my view. I still want her but her previous version as I feel that she couldn’t give me love as before she used to. I feel she has been changed and not crazy as I m or she was before in our relationship. I just wish everything would be normal as before but it seems difficult. What should I do. Should I accept her or move on ?
Bro, it’s better to move on.
If she felt true love for you, she would have never cheated on you in the first place. If you accept her now, you would never have peace of mind and would always have doubts about her.
I am on progressive way of moving on. But sometimes when past and her face comes to mind still tears come down and wants to accept her.
It’s okay to cry bro… Let it all out. After that, think of the happy moments you have now without her and be glad that you dodged a bullet.
