she is happy now, she doesn’t need me, she is enjoying and doing every single thing to remove my existence , i left her too but i couldn’t hate her, i still couldn’t do things she didn’t liked! we both ignore each other but not by heart, we lost respect for each other but love remained forever. she is my best friend, or i should say she “was”…
👍 nice
Me and my friend stopped talking few days ago…idk why but your post reminds me of him like maybe he is writing this for me.
Weird.
i am so sorry to hear that but here this is “her”. i am a girl
Understood
if you don’t mind, can i ask you something ?
as i can see here you are doing same to him… as she is doing to me… does it really helps? ignoring, enjoying and all? moving on? or you just pretend to be happy so that he can move on too?
Well he is a bad person. I gave him a lot of chances and he always said that I’ll change and all but that never happened. I got fed up. I was done. I do miss him sometimes. But then I just remind myself that he is not worth it. I live my life and probably he is living his.
oh god! thats what she said to me! but thats just small part like i have many many more things to be loved. no one is perfect so am i. we had many more reasons to stay. the respect, the future, the promises and the only reason she chose was my depression. and left. what do you think ? (situations are more similar then i thought it would be)
it would be great help if you make me understand what its like from other(her/your) side! please
I know that no one is perfect. I never asked him to be perfect but he just was a bad guy. He’d just pretend to be a good person in front of me. And whenever he’ll get caught , his response was ‘it wasn’t a big deal’ or “I did apologized”. He’d even use my own words to save his ass.
You cant just go on hurting people and than just say sorry.
Maybe your friend got fed up. Give her some space. If you keep pushing someone they just left, what happened in my case. I got tired and called it off
oh okay now i get it! its different! i always respected her decisions, likes and dislikes and followed them too! yeah she wanted space so i did gave her and at the end she said “i hate you, you are disgusting” i have never done anything like that, she came in her worst we moved together healed each other and left me for my worst! she had no friends then but now she has “cool” friends and me? i don’t trust anyone, i don’t talk to people in real life! and i just hate myself for no reason! if i can’t make place in person i loved the most… i don’t deserve it at all
anyways thank you so much for hearing it out
i am greatful :)
Damn , you sound exactly like me.
Not entirely, but a lil similiar kinda story happened with me. I did my college in another state and I had a bestie there like real bffs and when clg ended , I came home. But now my friend and I aren’t that close. Idk what happened, she made new friends and we don’t talk much now. Even if I try talking , her replies are so bad.
So yeah.
But ultimately I enjoy my own company so I dont really need much people. I do miss them but that’s just life. People come and go.
Your welcom :)
i am learning what you have learned :)
but i must say you are a good person
be it like that always
hmm it hurts the most when you reason for happiness becomes a stranger all of a sudden
it hurts more when they have done promises for never leaving you, doing start up together and a promise to never ever be a stranger
