Shall I feel guilty, if m breaking up with someone, because m not happy with him anymore? 

If you are not happy with that relationship then there is nothing to do with it.so don't feel guilty

Give it one more try.And if u have already given a try.Then stop right or u will end up in a very bad circle.Trust me please.And do not feel guilty,you are doing it for yourself.

Breakup

It's been almost 3 months since we broke up... And i was kinda moving on but i used to stalk him everyday... But today I saw his public profile from which i was blocked earlier... That he was with a girl holding hands.. it was an aesthetic collage.. (of his shoes with girls and holding her hands type in a mysterious way) and in his recent post a girl's comment was pinned... I mean after seeing all that I'm really sad and feel like I'm heartbroken all over again... I don't wanna feel this but how can someone move so easily after being in a relationship for freaking 3 years.. I'm really hurt..i don't feel like doing anything and idk how to deal with this😞 
Can anyone tell me what should I do? 

3am Thoughts

Im tired of crying the same things with him and I feel he doesn't care about me anymore and he is distancing himself from me and im always the one texting him since he leavens me on delivered and don't talk to me a whole day and I just want to know what wrong with him but everything I ask him he ask me and says the same answer as me and I just dont know what to do. He told me he was gonna play and I said oh okay but I haven't get a message  from him since yesterday and it has happen this week a lot  im just confused about this.

Hello... actually m new here but I thought I would get some suggestions from each one of U reading this..I've been feeling kinda down..my life's been a mess...m currently working..but i don't have a good family background either... probably the breadwinner ( m a girl) I've been facing lots of issues... pressure from work n home as well and I was desperate for someone to listen to me then I found a person he is younger than me but he came to me right at the time I needed someone..so I thought  he could change my stressful days n share me happiness
And yes he did!!! But I didn't 
After being together I learnt how much he loved me n cared for me but he's from different religion
.I don't mind that ..but I'm from a strict family with strict rules n I knew I could never give him happiness I tried to make him understand that it won't work out ....I just want his happiness which he won't get by being with me
But he don't wanna give up. ..I feel so hurt when I see him trying his best to hold onto this relationship...I know no one would love me like he does n no one would give this much effort but if we're not meant to be I don't want to hurt him ...I act tough n tell him that I don't want him only that he could leave me but he still wishes to hold ..m lucky but also unlucky..I think I bored U all ...but if ur reading this ....thank U so much for listening...m really having lots on me ...😊

Confusion

Hello!Please can someone give me an advice!🙏🙏🙏I know its a long story but I would really appreciate an opinion🙏
My ex boyfriend wants to date with me again because its been (1,2 month since we broke )and in a text today he said that all men that are single have pain in their heart when they watch girls doing Tik Tok or twearking online.After that I asked what does he mean ,is he talking about himself ?and he said No,I talk about other men that are weak not me(like he informs me how other men think) and he gived as an exeple:pastors or married man or single…and next step he gave me another exemple and he said : Let’s imagine that a man is walking with his 50 years old woman that has from him 3 childrens and on a side is walking a Beautiful 18 years old girl in a Short Mini Skirt and with her ass nude(thats how he texted) and she provocatively moves in the faces of your man and after he asked me :Do you think your man is blind and doesn’t see her?and he added :Imagine you have 50 years- you are old (he put an accent that I will be old woman at 50)and he asked me to answer him what do I think that when I will be 50 I will look like a girl that is 18? And he added of course the a man will not cheat on his wife but he will look at her and this will be pain inflicting for many men(thats exactly how he texted).After that I said to him that I will not take him back after this words and he said :I didnt say that this is how I think -he said that this is how another men think but in the way he texted and asked me if I think that I still will look like a 18 years old when I will be 50 I think that actually he talked about him and how he expressed himself about girls on Tik Tok and also that he said that my man of course will not be blind and what will do the 18 years old to him is Seduction. And later was blaiming that this how other men think not him and he is being just open about to me about other men mentality .And after all that he said he send me a picture with me when I was 18 (not I am 28) and said ok but be honest you will never look the same way you looked at your 18 years old. Why he keeps this age and conparing a 50 years old woman (that can be me in future with a 18 years old girl) and after compare myself with me when I was 18(my look) and after all this he said ok I will always love you and keeps asking me to take him back because ok I will be for him beautiful in my own way but something I feel insulting about how he expressed himself about all this and I feel like something is wrong.I am right?I dont understand why he wants me back when he talks like this .Please ,can someone give me an opinion?I would really apreciate this!Thank you!🙏

Relationships

I don't really know how he feels now. The thought of him being together with someone else is killing me. I feel like from now he will pamper her like he used to do to me. Whenever such thoughts comes into my mind, I try to distract myself or I try to keep myself busy in doing something. But until when will I do this. I wish he had never came into my life. I just miss him so much.

My boyfriend is a loser. A literal loser tbh according to world standards. But i am insanely in love with him. I mean everything he does makes me go 💃. even if it is the most stupidest and lamest thing ever ♥️. Anyways it will be so hard to comvince my parents to let me marry him. :')

I had a really bad past where I was cheated by my ex. He was flirting with numerous other girls & told many lies. After I knew everything I broke up with him..was in shock & depression. And took me almost 2 years to make myself stable.

Once everything was fine I met another guy. After a few months of being friends he proposed me..but as I still had that past fear I rejected. But he gave in more efforts and at last I fell for him. Almost a year passed by and everything was good. 

But now whenever I see him staying online late night or his Truecaller's last seen till 1-2am I feel he's cheating on me like my ex. Whenever I confronted it he just denies all. His reassurance is just not enough. 
I do trust him but seeing such things brings back my past fear and I'm just not ready to face something like that. 
Idk if I'm ruining my present with past fear or everything's fine. 


Boyfriend

Hey, I woke up crying today. The guy that have been in love with my whole life told me a couple of days ago he did not want a relationship with me.  We have been friends for almost close to 20 years. And this is not the first time he told me this but it hurts like the first time. I really want to move on from this and never look back. I feel like  he said things that made me feel that one day we were going to actually try to make things work but lately he had been acting like he was trying to push me away. And when I finally poured my heart out to him he shut me down like he always do. He said he wasn't ready. And I should have expected that but it hurts so bad to hear those words come out his mouth. This time it hurts in a different way. I dont know if it's because we are older or the fact that I feel like no one wants me. I have had relationships with guys but I always compare them to him. I just want to get pass this so I can stop crying.

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