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Hi everyone, feeling terrible I have left my job in jan 2021 and came home to take rest for a month but till now I am not able to leave due to family reasons and worst feeling is I am feeling alone AF from the last few months all my friends had started ignoring me not even friends by best friend as well. They call me only when they need any emotional support from me they have never called me to ask about me how I am feeling. It’s heartbreaking
People often say that don’t expect anything from anyone but my question is why not we have invested our time our emotion on a person when they need me then why I should not.
Sometimes I feel like I am just a garbage for my friends life when they like throwing their emotions and problems they come to me but nobody is there for me.
The most toxic people i have all around
Hii buddy.
First of all you are so brave to share all this here.
Regarding your work life - Since we are again in trap of covid 19 wave, i can understand it will be difficult to fetch a new job with desired salary and designation. But if you feel like you can opt for freelance work or wfh. Also if have made your mind to nat work, you can do online classes of different things… There are free course too. Involve yourself in your hobby. Do aet and craft.
Regarding friends- Since you left job, so your office friends and contacts might be not in touch with you.
Your friends may be busy in their own life.and many a times they not choose to yalk to you. Which is fine because there is no use to fore a conversation…ehen they dont want to.
I am in same situation as you. I left my job in dec 2019 because i was sick, till date i am with my family. It gets frustrating. My friends and boyfriend all are too busy for me. But this all long time…i have excepted how they behave. I dont stress myself…if they don’t talk/call/go on trips without me.
Becoz maybe they have shown me that they are not there for me at the time i neede them the most. And i cannot beg people to stay n talk n be there. Its completely their choice to be there.
If they are not, you know where to position them in your life.
Also, here we have good community on “now&me” you can always come n talk.
Hope this will help you.
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Thanks for your lovely thought really appreciate
Hii, don’t think like you are alone. What’s that reasons not letting you go. You want to share?
Hi Shristi, Just happen to go through your post and even I have left my job in 2020 due to extreme work pressure and ungrateful colleagues. Your words “People often say that don’t expect anything from anyone but my question is why not we have invested our time our emotion on a person when they need me then why I should not.Sometimes I feel like I am just a garbage for my friends life when they like throwing their emotions and problems they come to me but nobody is there for me.” are so relatable to me too…Even I too feel the same. Nothing feels more emptier than being available for people always ,who are not available for you when u need them. More power to you. We deserve better. Self love is my new mantra!
