Recently I met a guy through a dating app. I had already mentioned that I am not into relationship and committments as I was looking for something casual. i have started talking to him , he is very nice to talk and friendly too, he even talks about love relationship and all, but everytime he says these things , i tell him that i dont want that. he says he is okay and just wants to keep the conversations going. I am worried he would continue doing this and then one day propose me formally or ask for a relationship (just an assumption). I dont want to leave him with this assumption but i am also worried about hurting a genuine person as I dont want any relationship. Should I continue talking to him or should do anything else, please help
Talk to him and tell him what effect his words has on you. And tell him what future you have regarding you two, and tell him to express his. What hopes you both have about the future. Be open ans clear it out. It would be fair. For you and for him too
I had told him actually, he got a bit upset and said things like “I did not propose you”, “I am liking these conversations” etc etc. but tell me who puts so much efforts in something which one isnt serious about, like talking, sharing experiences, fantasies, compliments and all, Sometimes I feel like I dont owe him any answer and should just back off but that is too rude.
I honestly feel she is telling him the truth. And if he has plans to get serious inspite of her telling him then she should def. leave him. It would be better for her as well as for him.
I say, you do owe him an answer. I mean he is trying to make an effort and open up to you. But you don’t want that, which is completely your choice, then you should tell him, give him a closure and leave him.
I have tried to be clear as much as possible. i would try to explain my side to him and bring everything to a firm closure. Thanks you all
Hey all, n before i could explain him anything, he has reduced talking to me, and giving me excuses for not being able to talk(even when I did not text him first or ask/expect his explanations). It’s sort of like he is trying to ignore me while he himself was showing efforts😜. He says, he would get free and talk to me, but hasn’t done that in a while. Do you think I should text him myself and firmly end it up or just ignore or wait for his call ?
