Please tell me am I overreacting?
I am in LDR 3 months and little more. At the begining we talked much, audio, video, played online games together.
Lately, second and third month that became less, but at the same time he really had much work, and I understand that. Last few days storie goes the same.. No single text for hours, no calls (some tehnical problem as he said), and still claims he loves me. 
Sometimes I feel I am overreacting and toxic and sometimes I just think he ih not being honest to me. I am so confused.
For example he finished work today at 16:35, now is 22:00.. No text since then. And I feel bad, unwanted. :(
What do you think? Should I have more understanding for him or just stop talking and everything and find someone who will give me attention and effort?? Sorry for bad English, it’s not my first language. 

When I ask he always say: “I never ignore you”. 🤷🏻‍♀️
At the same time he does not tell me what is happening, is he out, or doing something, busy with something else. So I have to overthink what is the causse. 🤷🏻‍♀️


Impossible because of his bad connection, we tried few times, not working. When I asked how he talk with his family he said he use other app. 🤔 But never told me to install it so that we can talk. 😔
That makes me so confused because he knows my opinion and knows I miss him and want to talk with him. Of course I did not install it. Humiliating.. 

Before sleeping he just text few sentences and we say “good night” to each other and That’s it.
Also on his free days he does not text much.. 😵‍💫🤷🏻‍♀️

This is past now. I am feeling very good. I moved on with my life leaving inconsistent person behind me. Thank you for asking. 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Boyfriend

I never do anything or tell my feelings for attention no I just want to share my feelings to someone want to feel a little bit light and here not my friends but my boyfriend thinks I do everything for attention no I don't I really have problems and I can't keep all the problems to myself I'm not like him I just like sharing it to him and one day he said I just give all this reasons to avoid the mistakes I did no I don't want to hide my mistakes by making him pity me it's too much to take even If I talked told him properly I don't like when he does and in a sad way I also told him I won't tell you my problems anymore if you feel this way he just said don't then like he never cared about what I am sufferring or whether I share my life with him or not or maybe he just doesn't care whether I'm there or not he is strong enough to get over me I can't I don't have the power to wait one week also even if it's his mistake I text him first idk what's wrong is it me?am I wrong?I have issues with everyone I'm not enough or good for anyone maybe I'm the wrong person or I'm toxic idk

Hi,
I am in a relationship for past 1 year and I am deeply in love with the guy and we used to share a very good bond. But in the month of October I had to come back home to meet my family and i had planned to return back the next month. But sadly, he met with an accident just the day i came back home and hence his mom came to meet him and help him out in his daily work. But again, last month, unfortunately, his mom passed away at his place all of a sudden. It was a serious shock for him and me as well. But, I have been supporting him all day and night. At initial days, he was not talking at all. But still i kept on texting him keeping in mind not to force myself into his personal space. But as days are passing through, I am feeling helpless and not able to understand how to deal with the situation. I am scared if this situation might lead to our breakups. I really want to talk to him or meet him but it seems he doesn't want to. I am aware of the fact that he is upset and in a different mind space altogether, but am also going through difficulties resulting me to overthink which is eventually effecting our relationship. What should I do? Any kind of suggestions are welcomed.

Relationships

Iam in very big confusion. My parents has fixed one allaince for me for marriage. But i just broke up with my bf a month ago. He used to get money from people for debt but will barely return them money. Thats the reason for our break up. But except money thing, he used to treat me better and I was always free in that relationship without any barriers. Iam having oscillation between fiance and my bf. I feel like i still have feelings for my bf and whenever i see him I feel like to hug him. Also my fiance is also good. He is having basic good qualities. Also i feel like no one will marry my bf if iam not marrying him as he has bad name in the city because of money problem. Without money thing he is a very good guy. Please help me to sort it out. Im tired of crying

Fuck! So I was very much restless last week constantly thinking about ex even when I didn't wanted to....and he texted me last night, there was a rush of emotions. He still hasn't changed he still blames me he stilllll is the same bad human who just thinks of what he's going thru. I just am soo broken rn like i have been going thru a hell lot in life and this one human is just ripping me apart I still get panic attack of this threatenings n when he will lose his shit and come again to abuse n trouble me so I stay kind I let him blow off the steam but in that my mental health is deteriorating like anything. I just feel soo fucking proud of the strength that I posses but BUT I yet feel soo bad for myself for no one acknowledging or even having a clue of what I'm going through. I just now again have to work to bring myself at a stable position. Its like brick by brick I build myself up holding myself together and this boy comes and vents out and wrecks me apart and I have to start over again you have noo idea how many times I have started over n over again. Yet I stay kind cz that's who I am keeping him sane at the expense of me cz yea fucking childhood trauma of being the peacemaker. 
If you have stayed till here listening to my rant thank you soo much human, I love you 🥺❤️ take care and peace out 😊

Breakup

I think I might be a little obsessed with a dude 5 years younger than me and maybe under my league. He’s kinda addictive. My friends wouldn’t understand because he’s not exactly the… “dreamy” or “charismatic” type.  He’s actually quite nerdy & socially awkward which I find adorable lol he’s very smart, hella funny and has a big heart. His affections are displayed a little differently, not in normal sentimental ways but he loves hard and is a big soft boi lol He’s also the “little bro” of the group, 19 & I’m 24. It would hurt to be mocked as a cougar especially for someone that young…I feel ashamed 😣 but I can’t control how my heart responds to him so I’ve been avoiding him lately to let the flames die out.

He told me he had feelings nearly 2 years ago but I didn’t see him that way then. this year I was forced to face the cold truth (I repeatedly denied for months) that I caught feelings for him a year later. But he’s made it clear he moved on already anyway so I see no point in admitting to it now. Sometimes I think..I want to wait for him. But other days I think…we probably wouldn’t work out anyway. Lately I’ve been focusing more on the ladder and keeping distance, while difficult, is something I think to be beneficial in the long run. Plus, I’m pretty convinced his heart has returned to the girl crushed on before me. She’s never been interested but he always goes back to her so 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m not gonna fight that. Of all my guy friends, including those older than him AND me, I’ve never felt…as safe & comfortable to share deep chunks of my heart with any of my male friends the way I felt with him.

In some ways he’s mature for his age. I’m aware I romanticize those parts of him to ignore the parts lacking growth. We’re on two different planes mentally and I know I could never tell our friends because they’ll think somethings wrong with me lol they wouldn’t understand. It’s not like I want to like him and if I could remove these feelings manually I would. But idk how to stop them and I’ve been sitting on this for almost a year. it’s eating at me something terrible 😔

Crush

I'm confused...I'm in a relationship for last 3 years... I didn't expect anything from that person. We sometimes fight and will be okay after that... We are not at all like ordinary lovers. We didn't make love conversations, no gifts or anything... Not remembering special days...  We were Happy... But for past few days, tl I feel like the other person is keeping distance... Not having regular conversations...when asked about it, not responding properly.... And it caused a large fight. After that we solved it...even though the same things are happening... That person is  not showing interest to talk like we used to.... I don't know what to do and how to solve this...I invested so much mentally in that person so I'm getting hurt.  

Conflict

I am currently in on and off relationship dating a guy since 3 years he was my best friend before that but now things are like this he doesn't talk to me nicely like if something goes wrong he will start talking to me in his rudest tone when I ask him where does he gets from he tells he is using this tone for the one who deserves this but I don't deserve this kind of tone!! 

Now I'm a girl and my mom and dad is literally worried about my marriage and he is not earing anything right now and how can I tell my mom and dad that I want to get married to him. They have literally spent alot in my studies and everything and it's about my future. Now he is starting his business which will take more than 10 years to settle things now.. He tells that I'm very worst girlfriend who can't wait for 10 years for him to grow. I can but what about my parents I should make them suffer like this? ☹️ I'm in so bad state my parents upset with me my love life is totally out of balance. I can't sleep at night I cry sitting alone.

Oh boy I matched with this guy on a dating app and he's the human version of a golden retriever. 
Initially he seemed relatable and okay. But as he opened up, it became difficult to talk to him.
He constantly talks about himself, his trauma, his achievements. I mean it's good to share and I'd love to listen but don't share about your struggles when someone is having a weak moment and sharing their trauma. I told him I do not want a relationship with him. We aren't compatible. He says okay but then flirts inappropriately. Making sexual suggestions and talking about my body. I told him off for that too. He talks about our babies. Like what the actual fuck. On one end you agree to respect my decision while on the other end, keep pushing the idea of us.
He's the sweetest person you know. Like too good to be true. He preaches like a saint. And I want someone who can sit with me and chaar gaali de sake kisi ko. 
The other day I was mad about something and he happened to call. I shared because he kept bugging. Gyan Dene lag gaya batao. Bc robot ban jau kya

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