People keep leaving me at my worst stage. They couldn’t be this bad. I’m seriously thinking if there’s something wrong with me. It certainly is. Am i a bad person? Should i stop talking to everyone? What’s wrong with me ? How do i solve this
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
No I don’t think you are a bad person and you should think of that either … not everyone had the strength and courage you think they have to be be able to stand by you … most people look strong but they aren’t … it’s not your fault it’s theirs and there is still time to be able to find amazing friends and people to share memories with .
Love, Zari🧚🏽♀️💓
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
You should not think of that either *
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
Not everyone has the strength *
P.s sorry about the errors I was really typing fast💔
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
I don’t exactly understand what you are trying to say . Can you explain ?
It’s just that i do know that something is definitely wrong with me but those people leave without telling me what is?
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
Have you ever asked them where you go wrong ?
They stopped talking
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
Have you tried to reach them?
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
Not everyone comes in your life to stay … we find and loose friendships but it doesn’t make you a bad person … you just have to work on yourself ❤️ say Daily affirmations, that helps a lot … tell yourself nice, amazing and encouraging things … tell yourself you are worthy of happiness and you are strong and beautiful
And then build acceptance… Acceptance that these things happen so it shouldn’t come as a surprise and acceptance that you’ll be okay eventually 🧚🏽♀️
I did a lot. In a way that made me look like a pathetic stalker or some kinda who can’t let people go but yeah nothing works
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
You need to stop depending on people for your happiness … I know it hurts a lot especially when you’ve put a lot of trust in them and you care about them… I have lost people because I wasn’t even there for them due to personal reasons they didn’t understand …but you have to accept life as it comes no matter how horrible and painful it comes … I personally have lost people who i was there for too and over the years they come back sometimes . I do that to people and people do that to me … I can’t be everywhere and I don’t expect people to be everywhere either.
Yeah you are right. I need to move on…
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
Hey, how are you doing ?? Do you feel better ?
Hey thanks for checking up on me I’m doing a lot better and actually i even texted you here
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
Really ?? Can you text me again ?
Hey. The first step is to breathe.
You’ll figure out things. Something wrong with you or something wrong with others all these thoughts will sort itself up when you are calm. Just try to breathe and relax.
Nothing works. I’m unable to find the escape
You will. Seriously trust me. Even I’ve felt this way and after a few day/months I’ve found myself in a better situation. All I did was not lose hope.😀
This is the thing you know. I get better. Everytime this happens i do get better then i get cautious to not trust anyone and finally when i do. They cut me off. It keeps happening
yes
zari💕🧚🏽♀️ @zari
Sometimes you just have to build yourself to be able to figure things out, be strong for you , have courage for you … no one should feel the need to depend on others to be there for them … the moment you realize you are your strength and not seeing it that no one is there for you …no …don’t think people aren’t there for you we all have our personal issues we battle . We are all humans and we aren’t perfect like our creator is and we make mistakes … yea you would still meet people who would go out of their way to be there for you but first you just have to realize that YOU are your number one strength .
Thank you for saying these kind words
Tahrim Haider @tahrim
Everyone is temporary in this world, nothing is permanent. It’s a part of life and people leaving are a sign that you’re moving ahead in life.
Don’t worry as you move forward you’re going to meet many new people and many old people will be automatically moving out of your life.
Keep calm, and don’t worry yourself much about these people.
I wish i hadn’t but only if these were the people i chose to trust after a long time
Tahrim Haider @tahrim
Trusting them is ok, but they also have their own lives and their own goals and with time we become busy to achieve our goals so expecting them to be in our life can be kind of selfish, they can stay as far as they wish and when it’s time for them to move on in life it would be advisable to do so.
You seem to be in your teenage, if it is such, then grow a little more and you won’t be thinking like this.
It’s not about them going further away constantly. I have been trying to work on myself for a long time and i do know that people Slowly fading away is only inevitable and i let go too. It’s not about them. It’s about someone who just decides to cut me off suddenly
