People believe what they listen and keep in their concious mind like judgemental stories. Kisi ka naam khrab Krna bahut easy h life me without knowing the actual truth. We try to rush out from these drama and also try to meet some people without gaining any sympathy, just the real one who actually understand you deeply. The worst part jb koi aapke bare me janta h, phir v wo feelings k sath khel krke chala jata h, tb smjh ni aata why humans don’t have the humanity. Hum jaise hote h, wesa hi dusro me apne aap ko dhundhte h. Pta nahi hota ki inhe kon sa license mila hota h ye sb krne ko. Jb ye ek bharosha sambhal ni pate to pta ni kya sambhalenge. I know I was not your choice but an option for your extra care. Anyway I lost nothing but my precious time and feelings with pure soul. Thanks Mr. EX but will remain the last as my last lesson.
Simran @st1199
Hi!
You are right. We are judgemental and we do judge at some point in time. And judging is not a problem but saying it on the face and making them feel conscious and bad is the problem which I hope will get better soon with more level of understanding.
It hurts when people close to you break your heart or trust because we gave them our time and what did they do to us? Make us learn a lesson which is very important in life. Yes, it makes the situation worse but we grow from that and be more careful in the future, isn’t it? That’s the best part of falling. You get to rise again.
You will too and you are mature enough to understand that, I could see it. 💜
But it still hurts 🙃. Trying my best to change everything. Hope ki aisa jarur ho.
Simran @st1199
It will, no doubt.
It will take time, but you will be able to come out of it.
Maybe do stuff which you like doing and it will divert your mind?
Nothing works.
Simran @st1199
What are you doing every day in general then and what do you want to do which you are not able to do?
I am not able to concentrate on my studies. Sab kuch thik rehta h but suddenly something hit back. Remind me something nonsense, from which I really want to come out. Mind divert here and there. I don’t even talk about him with anyone. Phir v yaad aa hi jata h. Anyway. I will try my best to get out of these. And thanks for your response 🙂🙃
Simran @st1199
Whenever it hits you, rather than trying to divert your mind and forcing yourself to ignore those things, tackle and talk about it in your head.
Once you do that, it will stop faster than trying again and again to divert your mind.
