Amber Brand @amberbrand101
Past 2 months now I’ve been so stressed out and depressed. I’m finally snapping in half! I can’t handle the words “property” or “credit”. I wake up daily wondering if I’m still going to have the land that I grew up on, and then wondering if I’ll be able to make enough money at the 4 jobs I have for my animals. Trying to build my credit with my husband so we can just get our own place, but him stressing out is making me worse to my breaking point. 😢😭😭😤🥺😩
hey, listen. breathe.
i’m super proud of you for holding on and trying to work things out with your husband. but its important to not bottle your emotions up, because they’ll eventually overflow and flood the room.
i respect you a lot for trying to stay on top of things and manage your money well; financial stress can be crushing, and I’m sorry that you’re having issues with your finances, because that is extremely stressful.
what i recommend is perhaps creating a budget? it helps manage your money - try and section off and set aside just a bit of money each month or so. remember that getting a place for yourself takes a lot of time, so take it easy and slow. you got this. maybe also talk to a professional about ways to save money, as well.
i can’t really give you personal advice, since i am a stranger online; but what i will say, is that you can do this. you can pull through; don’t let this crush you. life is like a heavy boulder constantly pressing on you; it doesn’t get lighter, we simply get better at withstanding its weight.
you got this, warrior <3
Amber Brand @amberbrand101
We are talking to a professional about savings. I just got my 4th job last week, (other 3 jobs are oilfield work that I don’t get hours or pay at hardly at all). We are looking to buy land within the next 2 years. Until then we are looking for rental place so we can just take a breathe and get away from the stress. This weekend I’m going to sit down with my husband and explain that I am having problems with my stress and depression. I’ll try to help him understand how I feel but he doesn’t normally understand when I get THIS bad. And I know it’s because I’m bottling up but here lately he only wants to me to listen about his stress and how he can’t sleep, but I’m hoping this weekend will change that. He is older than me so sometimes it’s harder for him to understand that I’m younger and more sensitive to certain topics.
