One of my ex's friend is tryna be very friendly and kinda flitry with me lately thou it has been a year since I broke up with him but idk i kinda feel weird

Honestly am trying but he somehow just knows how to keep the convo going and i feel bad leaving people on read when they are like asking me something 

Hi there, ✌🏼 Things:
*If that person is your good friend try to speak it out and make him understand about how you feel. 
*If that person isnt.. Just tell him
You aren’t comfortable and settle things. 

Confusion

I broke up with him (me still being in love with him) bc HE was out of love and suddenly I'm become the bad guy here. How? 🤷🏻‍♀️

3am Thoughts

I am a 20-year-old girl from India and currently pursuing a computer science degree. I was in a relationship with this guy for a very long time and the habit that I told him everything on my mind every day allowed me to focus on important things and I never lost my direction but since we had a huge fight 4 months back I have not recovered from it and I don't feel good with him anymore. I still love him as a person but I don't find us being compatible and a practical couple. We have differences that I am not able to handle. He has not fully accepted the breakup which is a huge stress on me because he does not like to talk about it.
Since I am not able to be comfortable with him I have been feeling deep loneliness and void.
I am also having anxiety attacks almost every day for 3 months.
I have been trying to find some help online but not able to get any mature people to help me out. I have a lot to work on and a lot to study but I am losing focus.
The only solution that I have thought of is to get discipline in my life and see how it goes. All I need is the courage to overcome these tough times, hopefully.

Lonely

I recently had a break up from a 3 years relationship. I broke up because he wanted me to quit my studies and marry him I 3 or 4 yrs. And after that no job just cook and stay home. He said even if he's wrong who the hell I am to tell him because this is thing happening in his family.
He blamed me for not caring about him and his family calling me a selfish.
But what he said was to leave my dreams my family and everything for him, he'll keep me happy with everything I want he said and I know he wld have but what about my choices.
Me and friends said u r right but i  don't know why I think I did him wrong .

Breakup

My boyfriend and I broke up/took a break whatever u wanna call it, and in that time I slept with someone else I know I’m a horrible human being and I feel like shit about it and regretted it instantly. The breakup was mutual but when I slept with someone else it made me realize that my bf is who I wanted to be with were kinda back together now it’s not official but I know if I tell him it’ll be done he won’t be able to get past it but I don’t know if it’s the right thing to do to tell him or is what happened during our break just between myself and I. He would never encounter this person either so I’m not worried about that but idk if I should tell him because if I do all it would do is hurt his feelings and he would never get over it or it would take a really long time idk. We’re in a good place right now, should I tell him or leave it be. I know I suck please refrain from negative remarks I know what I did was wrong. We were broken up for like a month for reference and we’ve been dating almost a year now. 

Relationships

So my husband lives overseas and from marriage till now which is two years we didn’t live together and I am living with my parents now as we’re going to live together today all of a sudden my husband asked me what are you going to bring he was asking for dowry even though in the beginning I had told him that I am against dowry so my mom also said what you want and he said nothing and most importantly we don’t have such a tradition like a dowry. I didn’t ask him if you’re asking for a dowry or anything I am in total shock what should I do and how should I react to him????? He’s not like this I feel like someone is telling him to say such things….

Conflict

How to overcome a guy you never dated?

One Sided Love

Hey all,
Have a stupid yet important suggestion to ask

I have been looking for marriage prospects.
And have been talking to one of the aliance from sometime now.
He is a good and very nice person. Gives a typical good guys vibes.
Its been a month we are in touch now.
Things are slow but moving.
Its difficult to figure out how much he is interested in it and where exactly this is moving.
But thats a separate question.
The qs of today is a little old fashioned one but can turn out to be vital.

I am not a virgin.
I lost it to my past relationship which was 5-6 years ago.
But after that I have had a bad experience over another marriage proposal where i tried to be honest about it when things were moving towards good and could have turn into a marriage.
But my honesty turbed it into a bad ugly end with heart break on both side( he developed real feelings towards me and i started liking him too) and he feeling betrayed and things getting a bit upside at my home after an abrupt ending.
Now i fear the same thing in this one.
Dont get me wrong i have moved on. It was no flaky relation from my end. But yeah may be I slipped too much into it believing in him too much to think that this is how it can harm my future.
This fear of past somehow geting on my way after marriage like he getting to know it from someone or anything and then feeling betrayed and the fact that i am not being upfront about it now - suggested by many and its true that i feel nothing good will be achieved anyways telling it rather it can ruin a good thing becz apparently until i tell this , i am a good person and the moment i tell this i become a completely different person.
I need your help to understand this thing and help me decide what to do.

Life

my ex and I broke up a year ago because he got bored of me. He randomly removed me from insta 3 months ago but i eventually got over him. Now he starts blaming me and talking bad abt me and it breaks my heart and cant let me fully heal

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