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🐝 bee @billybea22

one month ego i had a break up. he was first love of my life. we were in a serious relationship from last 2.5 years. uor marriage has been fixed by both of our families. every thing goes well but one I couldn’t recieve his mother’s phone call because I was ill that’s why my mother called her back but they didn’t pick up the call… after sometime when I awake i had texted my boyfriend that I can’t pic up the call because I was sleeping. He text back in a rude way that is why my mother called her back… why not me… I told him I was sleeping and I will call next day to his mother. but he said that I will go to their house after marriage so I have to make bondding with his mother. but i loved his mother and I thought our bonding was good. l told him be he was getting angry continuously. then I told him I’m not your slave i can’t call whenever you asked. Next day i told that to his mother that his son was very rude yesterday and also told her that I was ina problemthat’s why I couldn’t talk. she said you r not good for my sun you should stop loving my son. after that the guy told me that he had no feelings for me… he doesn’t love anymore. yes he cares about me but didn’t love me. because of my anger I am a angry person. he told me to forget about him. at that point I have no friends and my family members are not happy with me.
Now I very much understand how hard it is to live without friends, family support and mostly without Love…
The person whom I love most in this world leaves me… i know how it feels. I had anger issues I’m sorry that I couldn’t keep him happy. I regret my anger issues every day… I’m trying to change myself a lot according to him.
He doesn’t forgive me… I want him back hard but he doesn’t come back. I pray to him but it doesn’t work out.
Now I pray to God every day for bringing him back. But I don’t know if he will be back or not.
I want him I love him I need him. He just said he has no feelings for me 🙂
My health is not well after this breakup and I don’t know how far it will go…

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Kunal Lokhande @matt_mordu...

Yes you Thing . Whatever your problem are you find to way share someone and this is best platform to relief your mind. So my Simple question is what is love … of your perspective.

🐝 bee @billybea22

Love is a commitment, loyalty, accept your partner the way he is… a better understanding. Realising your flaws, keep him happy always. Concerned about your partner, And a little bit of expectations that they will understand your feelings too🙂

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Anonymous

Accept them as they are. That sounds great but it is not good when they have bad behaviour
I saw people say my partner is a little protective or has little anger issue or this or that. But they forget when their parent will get against this things will harm them.
PA personis a person, we love them in the beginning because we see good in them so we think they are the best in the world
But things go in a way we don’t want we hate them most, it is not about the person it is about our feelings
Now it is not about how good or bad he is for you it is about if you stay together then he will be a good partner
We can see if he is the right person he try to understand and resolve things not call the marriage off
He is not for you
Accept the weakness or vulnerability of a person not bad behaviour or nature

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Deep @themonk

Everything will be fine. Just take care of yourself at present. Pray to God ,have faith and hope for the best for your life buddy 🤞😇

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Anonymous

Look 1st he is not mature enough and it sounds rude but you both should get separated because if you stay with him maybe someday when you are in some big problem he will leave you in middle

Look it is a very very small thing on which you both have disagreement
I believe he is not right for you
Emotionally and mentally, yes you still love him
It will take time to move on, but you have to move on, it is good for your life

I know you love him, all this sounds not good, you want to hear how you can win him back but believe me, it is not right

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Pranav @dragonslayer

Spend time with your family,
Focus on your career,
Make new friends if old one’s aren’t there for you in your hard times, find someone who will love you even if you are angry, find someone who will say you are more cute when you are angry

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