One bad incident with friends turned my life upside down. Its been 4 years since the incident but I am still stuck in it.
I parents stopped trusting me. I was pushed away by my mom. I lost the connection with them. They decided to believe what my friend told and did not even listen to me once. I was slapped I was beaten by my parents cause they believed an outsider and didn’t even give me a chance to tell the truth. I still get anxiety attacks when I think about this. Something that happend 4 years back still affects me alot.
My so called friends lied to my parents. They ruined things. I always was there for my friends no matter what. My 2 bestfriends got together and went against me fo no reason. I always respected them and their lives. They didn’t respect mine. They shared my number with boys in our college and told them I am a prostitute. 1 month I received calls from random boys. It was very tough. I was all alone.
It is so tough for me to make friends and trust them. I was a bubbly extrovert person who loved meeting new people and talking. Now i can’t do any of it. I get very self conscious.
I still have no one to talk to about this… its always been on my mind…
I’d like to hear you even though the world doesn’t… I’ll be there for you when no one will will be… Even though I’m a stranger for now… I’m ready to listen… if you wanna share I’m here and all ears.
Thank you for replying… every reply means alot to me… feels like someone is listening to me… I’m still getting used to anonymous friends… I still feel a little bit of communication gap… but ya i would love to keep talking to you.
Sure, if you want I’ll listen to you here or anywhere else you’d want… Whenever you’re ready :)
Instagram?
Sure, please help me with it and I’ll DM you :)
Pinged you :) and delete this comment
First of all you go to the police to report them, they are accusing you for something you didn’t. So police should take care of them. Second of all you go to a psychologist, you are experiencing trauma because of this incident, i know how it feels i have trauma from sexual harassment and it feels awful. After it is your choice to speak with your parents or not, you did not do anything wrong, they didn’t believe you. Become the self you were back then, do NOT let people bring you down.
I am taking therapy since 2 years… but the incident affected me so much that I am finding it difficult to get out of it… I am trying my best to tell myself that I haven’t done anything wrong. And 4 years back I had no support so I couldn’t go to the police or didn’t even know I could go… and now its too late cause I dont have any evidence… Thank you for replying… every reply means alot to me… feels like someone is listening to me…
i am so sorry try to relax and i hope over the years will get better
Hey
U can talk with me
They r not ur friends who did this with u
They all r creeps
Don’t think about that incident
Make new friends
If u need any help tell me
I am trying to make new friends… but it’s so tough… I would love to talk
On this platform or any other platform u like to talk
