On my parents suggestion I have been talking with this girl who lives dar away from me , she likes me and have no problem marrying me (obviously arranged marriage), she is a good girl simple actually wayy too simple, she dont know how to talk with me she dont have any idea how yo make a conversation with a guy, i tried many things to make it work but it is not happening, i dont know what to do to make it work , whenever we talk the conversation ends after uh had dinner yes i had wbu), after this we both go silent and it becomes soo boring dont know what to doo, dont wanna break her heart too soo confused 😭
Just be honest and tell her how you feel. It’s better to address this issue before you get married.
Zara @wantadvice
Was going to say same
Ik , but i tried so many things to make it work, i even told her to ask some of her frds take advice from them abt how to talk what to talk, stupid girl is askingg meee that what should shee ask her frd idk whether she is this dumb or actually dont know abt all this i am so worried. And also my parents pressurizing me everyday because she is One housewife and marriage material (gharelu type) sooo hell of burden this is
R R @peace_dude
It’s a decision for your lifetime. So take good care while doing anything.
I’d suggest giving each other a fair idea of what you both are expecting from each other as partners. Ask her how she wants things and tell her about your idea of a relationship too. Just remember, human relations are variable, they need MUTUAL efforts.
I dont know what to say to her she has already made up her mind that she is okay with me and have no problem to marry me , apart from that she will do anything what her parents will say, she dont even know 1 percent of me idk what she thinks how she thinks, and here i am poor me thinking of not breaking her heart
R R @peace_dude
I’d only say that it’s better to take harsh but important decisions when things are afresh. With time it’d not be easy to make harsh decisions, neither for you, nor for her n her family as they are involved too.
Try talking to her once as two individuals. This will give you an idea what and how she thinks.
R R @peace_dude
Talk to her that you as a partner expects you to be communicative. And if she’s introvert then give her some time, let her be in her comfort zone in a while and then talk.
R R @peace_dude
Expects her***
Pankaj @pankajsawankar
Bro its almost 1 year how much time more ,i am also a less talkative type of person but in this type of situation where life involve i speak, normally people ask how to shut the girl ,hear i am asking how to make her talk 🤦🏻♂️
R R @peace_dude
Then it’s time for you to be honest and say how you feel about all this. If things are not okay for you then say this clearly as this issue if not dealt will come up somewhat sooner or later. And there are times when you can control external situations and sometimes you can’t. Don’t wait for that time.
Thank uh bhai✨😶🌫️
shubham @chomsi
Google 101 first dates questions. Open the first link. Start playing this game with her. You’ll open up & talking will be easier. And dont just play question and answer keep it interactive as much as you can, ask her whys and hows and reasons behind her answers compliment whenever you can and assume answers before she answer that’ll keep things spicy 😉. Allthe best
Thanks i will try this surely , but please will uh tell me that will this work on a 21 year old girl who doesnt have any frds and highly introvert
shubham @chomsi
21 seems too young for marriage. But this is a great trust building exercise. You’ll know more about each other and that’ll make everything easier. I hope it works out for you guys. Mujhe shadi me jarur bulana. 😂😂🤭🤭
Pankaj @pankajsawankar
Its just a start of relationship its not like we are gonna marry tomorrow if all went well then 3 4 year easily
shubham @chomsi
Great. Good that you are thinking like that. 21 is way too young let her study have a job be independent. You both can grow and learn together. All the very best.
Thanks✨
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