Okkk so its about my boyfriend 🤧 whenever i get mad at him, he starts to get emotional like major emotional! And drag his past how he went thru stuff and eventually i have to tell him that ok!!! Im not mad stop this now 😕 and he says he cannot bear if i leave him like things get emotional alot. But he do sorry me. Can i not get mad at one thing?! He annoys me. What should i do? Seriously i m so done.
Well, sister. Hope you are doing well and healthy. First, try to make sure whether you have feelings for him? Do you love him? It is your right to get mad at anything you want. You are the queen! If you are done and feel like this is the end, do something with it, either leave him or try to make hhim understand(unsure of this option), Think about your mental health, You must put yourself always first! You are a warrior of your life. You should not be stressing over this too much. Smiling better suits you))
Thanks i was thinking the same but supressing my feelings because i love him but i should love myself more
I get you had a boyfriend the same way. The thing is they can’t keep being up their past it’s not your fault for what happened yes you can be there for him but if he keep using his past against you that’s not okay for you and your well-being. Because his still living in the past he not taking the time to say that his in a better relationship now. He’s only comparing to make himself feel better and make you feel uncomfortable because you don’t know what to do to help him. Have a serious talk with him and ask him why do you always bring the past up. What does it have to do with our relationship? Question him don’t let him shut you down
