Okay so my mum is being v v v v v nosy. Im 18 and im gonna turn 19 in 3 months and she doesnt understand that i need privacy. She hates it when i close my room door and talk to my friends on the phone she hates it when i chill in my room like she doesnt understand that i need my space. I mean yeah i agree that I’ve been spending so much time in my room but like dont i need my me time ? She can’t expect me to be happy and jolly all the time I’m a human too I’m not a robot. Idk how to make her understand at all. She opens the door (casually or atleast thats wat she thinks) and i h when i talk on the phone to someone and i hate it so much like so much i dont even know wat to do
Sagar ch @sagarch
U story is same as my story
I also want some privacy
Even I’m 19 yr old boy
I have a younger sister and shes like 5 years younger to me and both my mum and dad favours her so much its like I’m a burden to them and if i ever leave it’ll only be like a physical thing missing and nothing else. So many of my friends are close with atleast one of their parents and i so badly want to be close with my parents too but they dont understand. My mum has become very short tempered lately and its affecting the entire family.
Don’t worry. You are not burden at all. It’s all going to be good. They just care a lot for you.
Can we chat in private??
Who are you talking about ?
Me and u
Sure let’s connect. I-d ?
Can we chat on igram?
Tell me how to contact???
I think igram is best??
My id is
Ayush Sharma @rogue_star
I understand what you’re going throo, I’m going to be 19 too soon and my parents too think i spend way too much time on my phone it took me a while to understand they wanted me to spend time with them instead of phone they were just not able to communicate to me clearly.
And your parents may be harsh on you because you’re the oldest and it may feel like you’re a burden on them but look beyond the surface of you were a burden on them they would have kicked you out instead of trying to improve you. Their intentions are good methods not so much i guess. Hope you manage it tho with time, goodluck!!
I agree. There are times I get pissed off real bad, I take her scoldings way too seriously, scribble idiotic things in my diary that my mom doesn’t care about me and all but lately I have realised, she’s just doing her job. My mother is actually looking out for me. She has seen the changes, I mean who could understand us better than a mom? She has seen me getting distant from the family, using alot of phone, not getting out of the room, being seated all day. I mean, if I could place myself in her shoes, I would be sad that and worried tbh. We should actually give a thought on what they say because believe it or not, our ego is one dangerous thing.
Very wise words indeed
Listen I’m not able to connect
U must try plZ
Why do you want to connect?
Some people can’t change no matter who gives them advices on how to do so. Parents especially. I don’t tell you to give up, but people end their issues with their parents by moving out.
How are you?
Idk if this is a right suggestion…but I think it’d be better if you talk to them directly about it…try to explain explain your situation and make them understand about your situation… eventually they’ll get your point…
And most importantly try spending some time with them rather than using mobile.
Up for a convo???
Where u from? If its anywhere in asia…our parents don’t understand the word privacy…because apparently “they never had it and turned out fine” u eventually just grow to accept it but yeah…i get ur point…would love to talk