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Anonymous

Okay so I really like a guy whom I met on this app itself. I told him abt that but he said that he sees me only as a friend and there is no chance that he would develop any feeling for me in future kyuki uske hisab se agr esa hona hota toh abi tak ho jata…
I’m confused ki should I walk away from him or not…?
Can anyone help…😕

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Anonymous

Well if you feel better being his good friend than I think that’s what matters but if you are having other foreign feelings also and if not able to forge that feeling inside your heart only than I think you should leave , you can do whatever makes you happy and not toxic

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the great @sad_sapien

Yep.he’s right.

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Anonymous

Yes, you are right because agar aapke mann me uske liye feelings rahegi or aap tab bhi uske saath rahoge toh vo aapko bhot hurt karegi. So better hoga ki aap usse dur hi raho. Baaki it’s your choice.

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Anonymous

😂

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Anonymous

Yes I don’t want to loose him but I’ll create more mess if i stay bcoz one sided feelings tend me to do that…

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Anonymous

Han wahi na…yrrr I’m so confuse…

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Anonymous

I totally understand your situation because mai bhi iss situation se guzar chuki hu. Toh mujhe pta h kaisa feel hota h

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Anonymous

Can totally*

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Anonymous

Then tumne kya kiya? Walked away?

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Anonymous

Yes, I walked away

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Anonymous

It was really hard for me but maine kara phir bhi

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Anonymous

Okay. Uske baad fir Kabhi baat nahi ki aapne usse?

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Anonymous

Hey can we connect?

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Anonymous

Yeah sure

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Anonymous

Done

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anuj @anujvohra

Hey, have u met him in person? I think meeting person physically will help both of you to understand things better and in right perspective… and then take decision…leaving or not leaving cab be decided later with more mutual cooperation

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Anonymous

No i never meet him in person…but he is so sure k ab nahi aayegi feelings usko kyuki aani hoti toh abhi tak aa jati…aisa usne kaha.

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Anonymous

Mil lo…feeling or no feelings…tabhe jadya clear hota hai…baki if the boy is saying no…then leave it…

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Anonymous

Aap log kitne time se ek dusre se baat kar rahe ho vaise?

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Anonymous

1 month se jyada ho gya h. But sometimes na time matter nahi karta…u know from heart ki yahi h vo…

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anuj @anujvohra

Yes can understand…take care

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Anonymous

I’m unable to decide wht should I do now…

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anuj @anujvohra

What are you thoughts on this now?you are in double.mind?

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Anonymous

Agr ab uski life me rahi toh as only friend nahi rehna chahti…and friends se aage wo nahi feel karta h mere liye…
I should walk away but from this step I’ll loose him. I have fear of loosing him. But agr nahi gayi toh problems kam toh definately nahi hogi bs or sab kuch messed up ho jayega…
Yrr I’m so confused…

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anuj @anujvohra

Take your time…soch ke decision le lo…

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Anonymous

I’m now regreting ki feeling kyu aa gai ya toh dono ko aani thi…ya sirf muje hi kyu…😔

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Anonymous

Try to meet him as a friend and see if he’s getting feelings or not. Kyuki you can’t rely on online feelings.

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Anonymous

He already knows that i really like him and he said that he doesn’t think like that…
And to be honest muje usko force nahi karna just to develop his feelings for me…feelings apne aap aati hai laying nahi jati…
Or usne kaha hai ki he sees me not more than a friend.

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Anonymous

How you develop feeling for him even without meeting? Why don’t you trying meeting him things might change.

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Anonymous

I don’t know but I’m actually not feeling to meet him. May be it is bcoz i felt that I have ruined all friendship by my feelings for me. Don’t know but feeling kinda ashamed.

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Anonymous

You already told him right that you like him than how friendship will be ruined?

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Anonymous

Yes I told him about my feelings.

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Anonymous

It will ruin today or some other day. Bcoz aisa hi hota h aap control nahi kar skte in chizo ko…I’ll act as friend but for how much time…deep down I’ll have feelings which will only leads to complicate things even more and will ended up with hurting him and me…

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