I am in a relationship, it’s been 8 months. I am really happy! I love him!
But the thing is I feel I am completely dependent on him, if I want to talk to someone it’s him and that’s good yeaah. But when he goes somewhere for more than an hour or so I feel sad and then I get angry at him and yeah things get back to normal within an hour.
But this is becoming a regular thing and now I feel irritated of why am I getting angry because whenever I get angry I feel like crying. And I am so furious with myself because everything is going good, he gives me all of his time but the 20% time of the he does not give me I feel like whyyyyyy!! And that is the stupidest thing I KNOW! but idk
I feel like he is also getting affected by this but I just don’t the…when it happens I can’t control it!!
I don’t know what to do, I feel this sickly mood swing will eventually lead to a conflict!!
payal Sachdeva @paya
Idk why but urrr superbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb ever just take a sec and see yourself in mirror u will definitely realise that🤙
This really mad my day❤️
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It happened with me . I was you two years before.And today I am lonely and depressed . Don’t keep your happiness dependent on others because at the end you are all by yourself and believe me nothing can make you happy other than that person, but people change . Remember that . You will be lonely and you will feel unloved if that continues.
What’s the solution for it then? What would you give the 2 years ago you…who is dependent on him and can’t control it?
I would never be solely dependent on him for my happiness. I will keep on meeting new people and make new friends and pursue my hobbies and fulfill my dreams.
I’m currently in the same exact position and don’t know what to do. We were in relationship for 5 years. And I am in that phase many a times. I do know that she might be busy if she’s not responding to my messages and calls. But when I observe she’s not responding properly like how she usually does for 2 or more days, I used to start overthink the situation, get frustrated and irritated and at last cry thinking that she’s avoiding me. Sometimes I even burst out of pain and will later realize it’s me who has been expecting a lot from her. I don’t know I reach to this phase everytime whenever she doesn’t respond to me for for longer period of times. But still I wonder how can someone be so busy just to send one messege just one message in the span of 24 hours or can’t reply to a message being available in online for hours and hours. I really don’t know, i am stuck between the thoughts of is that me who is overthinking the scenarios and worrying or is it really happening. It really pisses me off to be in that phase.