Okay so guys I really need help here. So the story is me and my ex broke up almost 2 years ago. I broke up with him. Because of the things he did to me. But I still loved him. And I was hoping he will gain my trust and come back, or else he will do something so that I can trust him again. He just kept texting me sorry sorry. I didn’t gave him chance, But now he got married 8 months back because of his family and he is 21 so am I. And now he is coming back to me saying he is ready to divorce her and leave her. I don’t understand what to do. I am from maharashtrian family. And then again there is caste problem he is from lower caste . Do you think I should give him one chance. I seriously don’t understand what to do here. I am scared if we got back together there are going to be consequences.
No never think of doing that. Don’t do that to yourself. He must be a nice guy but you broke up for a reason,
Ik I broke up with him for a reason , but at the same time I think, if I would have given him a chance when he was begging me to come back. Then the situation would have been different
He got married because of his family as you said. So do you think he will be able to take a stand for you this time? I mean it must be hard. Don’t go deep into it again without any assurance.
That’s what I worried about I don’t want to create chaos in their family. Because in the past i was the problem and he did fought for me. And now after marrying the wrong girl. He is saying he will do anything for me.
My advice would be go for actions and not words. Also make sure you aren’t the one for their unhappy marriage. Also 21 is still too young. Will he able to take your responsibility on his own? Marriage is such a huge commitment, It isn’t like people get along after breakup.
You will love again, not today but surely someday and it will feel much better than this. You shouldn’t be a choice for someone.
I don’t think I am the reason, because I made my distance and never talked to him. But sometimes he messaged me saying he cannot forget me. And he wants to be with me always wanted to be with me.
Yeah I get it. Still. When we love someone it happens even if we are not together. But don’t take that missing as something forever, believe me. It isn’t worth it.
Yes as I said before I don’t trust him, because recently I got to know that even after marriage he still flirts with other girls for sake of timepass.
That’s enough reason of not going back. You got this girl, and even if you feel like your thoughts are dwindling about it. Talk to anyone about it. We are here for you :)
If the guy is not happy in his marriage he should take a divorce. But you should not be a reason for their divorce. You are young and you feel you like or love him but as you will grow, your priorities will change. So, you don’t need to take a call into this. He didn’t get married after asking you, so it’s his decision. I would suggest you to focus on your life. Meet new people and try to date new people.
I think of the same thing, I did mate new people but my mind and my heart keep going back to him. I feel like I will never fall in love again with another person. Because I don’t want to
Yes, you answered your question. “Because I don’t want to”.
Listen you should know your worth. How can you accept people to love you, when you don’t love yourself?
Do you deserve this? No
Will you find a good guy? Yes
Don’t get stuck in this situation.
