okay, I think I like her but the main problem is that she is not so good in her profession and seldom listens to me. I’m in 3rd year and partially financially independent but she is in her final year and takes her career very lightly. And I think in a relationship the growth rate should be equal otherwise the relationship won’t sustain for long. I try to help and guide her so that she can grow herself but she seldom listens to me. And this is the main turndown for me and I think this is why I do not want to be in a relationship with her. Since I get super attractive to the girls who are doing good in their careers so I don’t know where this friendship is heading to. We both mutually have this feeling that we both like each other but these growth rate differences disgust me sometimes. Another reason that I cannot be in a relationship with her is that we both live 1000kms apart. I cannot handle long distances. I hope I don’t end up hurting her sentiments
You’re right. Girls who are passionate about their career and do well in it is a huge turn on. You can stay friends but don’t look anything serious in this relationship.
I really think that I’m not up for any sort of relationship. I hope we both are on the same page. Thank you for agreeing with me :)
