Okay i genuinely need help on this guys. I’m a doctor. It’s been 4 months since I finished my mbbs. I haven’t worked much in these 4 months. Did some 10 duties on a part-time basis. After that, not much. I was looking for a permanent job and then I was disappointed that I was not getting any opportunities. But when I got, i got very scared and gave reasons and walked out. I don’t know why! I genuinely don’t know what is happening. I get very intimidated by the interviewers, I’ll know stuff, but I blabber things in front of them and lokk so stupid that makes me look like some dumbfuck but I know that I’m not it. I was 5th topper in my third year MBBS. I’m sincere in what I do. But lately, I am so scared to do a job, which I was very fond of doing. I don’t know why I’m passing the opportunities and lying to my parents saying that it was not a good offer, they didn’t accept and all coz I’m not gutsy enough to tell thsm ths truth. And I’m feeling very guilty about it. Also I’m very scared what if i never be able to work and don’t do anything in life… Why am i so scared to work. What is going on in my mind. I’ve not been able to figure out much… But been suffering since months together with this! Will this become better eventually, am I over fearing it. Or what am i doing wrong. Will I never be able to work without fear. I’m literally suffering from fear of working. Please help me out.
First of all remeber the day when you got qualified in NEET and about 15 lac students give this exam just to get one seat in a prestigious college and dude you were one of them… were you just passing time and wasting money for 2 years? hell NO , you got selected and got payed for your hardwork , you had confidence right? toh abhi bhi you are not late you have everything that is needed except the confidence even i used to get scared by the interviewers but then i build up my confidence coz to get just one college one seat and one stethoscope etc. i sacrificed many stuffs and you too so why let things get bad when you know the problem and probably now you have the solution too. so just get back to work upon yourself and i know this will work and if still it doesn’t then talk to your parents and see where it goes. BE CONFIDENT. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.
how can you say like this to someone? tumne kya kya karliya abhi tak apne jeevan mein? i want to know! and moreover hum sab idhr apne emotions share karne aur logon ki help karne ke liye hain and if you are here to DEMOTIVATE SOMEONE then you better leave this place PLEASE. Ese kisi ko bolne ke liye aur bhi bohot platforms hain!
arey theek hai but ese kisko bolo humko support karna chahiye. aur tumhe bhi pta hai ki iss wqt logon ka kisi bhi cheez se mental state kharab hojaataa hai, toh JAB SUSHANT SINGH RAJPUT KE LIYE SYMPATHY RAKHTE HO USKE MAR JAANE KE BAAD BHI USSKE LIYE BAATEIN KRTE HO TOH EK NORMAL INSAAN KE LIYE BHI UTNE EMOTIONS RAKHO… JAB WO BHI CHALA JAAYEGA TAB YE SUPPORTIVE BAATEIN BOLNE KA MTLB NHI RAHEGA.
Abhi konse college mein ho tum?
