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Anonymous

Ok so, PLEASE DON’T JUDGE

I am in love with my friend. He’s 14 years elder to me and he’s getting married soon. He knows that I love him! He knows i wanted to get married to him. I have told him numerous time. But he take it as a joke everytime. He thinks I am still a kid and don’t understand anything. Dude I too understand everything. I have gone through a lot of shit in my life and i am so independent right now.
How do I stop talking to him. His birthday is coming soon. I just want to stop talking to him after that. I really don’t know if i can stop talking to me. It breaks me to see him getting married. Obviously if i am talking to him he will invite me and my family to his marriage. How could I show my face to my family. How could I explain them that I love him. Please suggest some good ideas to leave him after his birthday

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Anonymous
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I won’t judge you, i know when we fall for someone we don’t see anything, age gap etc

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Anonymous
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Yup and why do people think only men can love so much? Yarr. I love him so much and i am able to do anything if he stays with me.

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Anonymous
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Drop your id , talk personally.

Rounak Jus @yaashu

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Really

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Anonymous
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Alot of questions are on my mind after reading this

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Anonymous
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Please go on.

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Anonymous
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What’s your age?

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Anonymous
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Haha I am 21. Please drop ur Id

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Shivay @shivay2595

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It’s totally okay to love someone whom you feel connected to.
But since he never thought in that wwu towards you he never had that feelings for you and he’s also not wrong in that neither are you.
It’s just that the situation and timing is not right.
You don’t have to worry too much. If you truly want to leave him and stop talking to him then just wish him birthday plain and simple no big messages no big surprises. Nothing extraordinary. Just a simple plain text.
And after that block him from everywhere. All social media and all other platforms.
Since you guys are such a good friend whether you talk to him after his birthday or not he will surely invite you and your family to his wedding.
And if you are connected to him through social media then you’ll have to see his wedding photos and celebrations and you feel much worse.
So to protect your peace ig after his birthday you should try and block him.
All the more power, love and peace to you ✨✨

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Anonymous
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Thank u🥺🥺 Means a lot.

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Shivay @shivay2595

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You never have to say thanks to me ever again. Just keep on believing in yourself and loving yourself and that’s all the thanks I’ll ever need.
Bas aap apna dhyaan rakhiye.
And remember you are never alone.
We all are here with yoy.
You’ll surely find someone who’ll love you the way you deserve.
I’m here with you. Always 🫂

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Anonymous
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Means a lot🥺🥺

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Shivay @shivay2595

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Areyy it’s okay na. Bas khush raho and find someone jo aapko utni shiddat se pyaar kare jitna aapne kiya

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Anonymous
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🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

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sona @sonalove

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Hello

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Anonymous
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Hi

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Anonymous
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How r u

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Anonymous
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Good…

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