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k

Ok I am furious now. Raging to be honest. My best friend in hope of helping tried to contact my bf who broke off the marriage. Trying to mend things. He even blocked her. Why. Why so much hate. How can someone be so cold. I cannot believe him being like this.

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Maybe he isn’t ready to get married. What’s the context ?

Anonymous

Mayb he never was interested… Sorry to say that… But u got to b strong

k

We were together for 3 years. He cant be pretending for so long.

Anonymous

It can be done… Well who initiated the marriage thing?? Was it u or him?

k

He did

Anonymous

Oh… Did u try contact him?

k

Yes. He blocked me everywhere and said he cant do anything.

Anonymous

Without saying the reason?? Do u knw his friends whom u can talk to?

k

We had a fight 20 days before marriage and i said some hurtful things to him. He didn’t meet me afterwards to let me apologize and explain or to work it out. He simply called my dad and told him. I apologized my heart out afterwards to him and even his family but he didn’t hear.

Anonymous

Was the things u said over the limits?

k

It was cruel and hurtful for sure but if the tables were turned i would have given him a chance.

Anonymous

Hmm so it depends on wat u said… If his trust of 3years went just like that then the things u said must b that hurtful too…and u have realised your mistake and apologised too right… If still he is nit getting that trust back then its better to let go… Now that man is not the one whom u knew for 3 years…

k

You are right. I just keep spiraling back to the good times. The way he was always supportive and nice. Its just unreal for me now how cold he became.

Anonymous

Hmm now its better to keep memories as memories… Try not to let it effect ur present and future… Focus on ur career growth… Get busy in something else which is also important

k

Trying. Taking therapy and all the help from people like you and this community. Thank you.

Anonymous

U will get through dear… I dont knw which place u r frm but if covid restrictions are not there in ur place go n hang out with ur friends… Share it with them… Cry… Let it all out… Travel far… Relax ur mind… If he is least bothered then u shudnt b stressing and weakening ur mind and body…