Oh boy I matched with this guy on a dating app and he’s the human version of a golden retriever.
Initially he seemed relatable and okay. But as he opened up, it became difficult to talk to him.
He constantly talks about himself, his trauma, his achievements. I mean it’s good to share and I’d love to listen but don’t share about your struggles when someone is having a weak moment and sharing their trauma. I told him I do not want a relationship with him. We aren’t compatible. He says okay but then flirts inappropriately. Making sexual suggestions and talking about my body. I told him off for that too. He talks about our babies. Like what the actual fuck. On one end you agree to respect my decision while on the other end, keep pushing the idea of us.
He’s the sweetest person you know. Like too good to be true. He preaches like a saint. And I want someone who can sit with me and chaar gaali de sake kisi ko.
The other day I was mad about something and he happened to call. I shared because he kept bugging. Gyan Dene lag gaya batao. Bc robot ban jau kya
To is kahani se humko kya seekh mili?
He’s educated and comes from a good family. Simple bhasha me kaha I don’t want to date you. Fir bhi line Marta hai. Then I said I like someone else. Tab he got quiet. So you’d respect another man but not my decision to not date you? Where did we go wrong? Kya equality aur respect ki baat karte ho jab Funda hi clear nahi aapka. Block kar du kya isko? I’m being patient because mentioned he has been depressed for many years and now he has come out of it. I don’t want to trigger him in anyway. I have been through tough times and I understand that I should handle this sensitively. I wish him the best but I can’t pretend to be so positive all the time. Jhoot bol du I’m dating someone toh he’ll leave me alone?
Koko @theunicorn
Gurlll i would suggest to move on from it not only for him but most importantly for your own mental health too. Sorry to say and i literally hate it to admit that guys sometimes are funny like this and yeah i completely agree girls are also like that sometimes but i guess here in your case as it’s someone who is constantly giving preaching languages (it’s again good thing but tbh too much of anything is really toxic) and you’re so nice person that even after all this you cared for him, hats off girl and please it’s kind request from a girl to another girl that please leave him maybe on a sweet not or just be clear cut to him, it might hurt him now but in future he might understand that (let’s hope he will), you are also going through tough times right so please for your sake leave that person, for both of your happiness and there are pleanty of guys out there who will care for you understand you and most importantly respect you and your decision. Much love and power to you gurl !!! If you ever wanna talk about anything i am all ears !! 💫🤗😇❤️
Omg thank you sis! Thank you for understanding. I don’t feel anything for him so it’s not even about moving on. Tbh it’s about getting him out of my life. He’s draining. Since he doesn’t respect my decision, I’ll come up with a lie. Last time I got caught as he asked several questions about who I’m dating (I’m a terrible liar btw). This time I’ll make a good story with details so he’d leave me alone for good. I’m positive that there’ll be someone for me but it’s def not him and I’m not sad about it. Thank you for taking out time to read and respond so kindly. ☺️ Ah I’m relieved. I was questioning myself if I’m being a horrible person. Really thanks a lot for understanding! 🫂✨
