not a big deal but a good friend of mine always ignores my messages in our friend of 3. even when its about something im especially insecure like my progress about my body image (english’s not my first language sorry) and required some kind of validation. they just ignore me and talk to my other friend as usual 🧍♀️
its very awkward now because idk how to talk to them anymore?? I always used to think she didn’t like me much, but recently it’s kind of cementing.
It’s okay. Calm down first. You don’t need to feel awkward. If they aren’t giving u the validation when u need u can’t call them friends.
And about insecurity if you want to talk about it can share here. I’m all ears for you. You don’t need to be scared about being judge. You are absolutely a beautiful human.
Ruchir Soni @ruchirs98
It’s okay to feel that way. However, you don’t need any validation from them. How you perceive yourself is what matters. I have been third wheeled like this since past 1 year. Trying to have their validation will only make you more miserable. Try enjoying yourself more. Validate yourself.
Hope I was of help. Anyway, I’m here if you want to connect and talk more.
you’re right. i guess i was a bit desperate lol. thanks