I feel the same. I wonder when I’ll be having my tribe around me who uplift each other and it’s just pure vibes. Yet I keep struggling to make that happen because I am also a loner. And the fact that we attract people acc to our frequency has got me thinking that the people that I complain about around me it’s just me complaining about my own low frequency. Which becomes unbearable and then I naturally go in a shell. I always believed that I love to be alone but actually humans are social animals so when we start isolating it’s probably because either we don’t like the people around us or we are trying to be someone around them which we are not which is exhausting. Pretending to like them or be ok with them because they’re all we got is exhausting. But I’ve learned that rather than blaming people around me I’m gonna try to raise my frequency my energy and my well being so that naturally I’ll attract such people in my life and the ones who cannot match that will drift apart. Idk if that’s the right way but so far that’s how I’m going around it
Being isolated is not bad and is peaceful only for a certain period of time but if it lasts longer there’s no peace. Ik we attract the same kind of people because they feel familiar even if they’re not what we want. Tough to break the cycle
