My whole life I felt as if I was never accepted and I never knew why. I was never considered unattractive or strange or awkward. It just seems though anytime I try to make friends or have people in my life they always leave or they choose other people. I just wish I had a solid reason why this happens so I can fix it and patiently make new friends especially since it is my first year of college and I just want to find people who want to be friends with me. Does anyone have any advice on this?
Well Hi there first year of college is a new start to a great journey and lots of friends. Well to first talk about the friends who chose others over you I feel sorry for them because they lost a friend who cares about them even after they are gone probably they donโt deserve someone as good as you donโt worry. Well one can always self improve and work in themselves internally but not because that will make people like you or wanna be friends with you but because you should try and be the best version of yourself possible. Well I feel nothing in friendship should be forced or out of desperation neither the initiation not the staying in one. Friendships usually happen when two people have similar interests or vibes or common perspectives to look at things so donโt worry be the true you and you will find some amazing friends for life.
I donโt think so that friend which left you for others was ever your friend. Itโs your 1st year at college. you will go through many things. you will meet many people there be friends with your classmates. just be the real you. laugh live enjoy those days at fullest.
