Raghav @r4gh4v
My question is for ladies/girls here… will you choose a good guy who is divorced and has critical medical issues and have kidney transplant?? If he is a good person and has good qualities? Can such a person find love? Please be honest and don’t sugercoat…
How old is he ?
Raghav @r4gh4v
33
I am 26 year old female . His age will depend too . In my case i think I can do fine with this age gap .
If i don’t sugarcoat , i would be bothered for the fact ki iss person ka medical record itna achha nahi hai .
How serious is the medical condition ?
Raghav @r4gh4v
It’s series but with transplant it will be solved. Then it’s same as any normal person. Agar nahin karaya to the person will die.
Raghav @r4gh4v
Ok, thanks
Don’t use these words please . He won’t die (if such a person exist in your life)
Agar transplant wala scene hai , or uske baad the person is himself living a healthy lifestyle to i am in for such a situation .
Raghav @r4gh4v
Sorry if it made you uncomfortable, I am that person and thanks for your reply. It was very comforting.
No it wasn’t about making me feel uncomfortable . I’ve recently lost my elder sister in an accident. And i don’t want any to use word “die” for anyone .
Just - do not even think about such things . No negativity.
Raghav @r4gh4v
I am sorry for your loss. I will be positive. 😊
What was the reason of your divorce ? If i can ask . We can connect also .
Raghav @r4gh4v
She cheated on me with her friend and I came to know about that after one year. I still tried to fix things but it was too late hence there was no alternative other than divorce.
And you faced these medical issues after that or were these ongoing while all this ?
Raghav @r4gh4v
We can connect, that’s ok with me but i am alright. I am over all of this now. Thanks for the concern.
Raghav @r4gh4v
No no, after divorce. I was just recovering from the trauma of divorce then I came to know about my condition.
Critical medical issues like??
Raghav @r4gh4v
Kidney failure
There is always someone out there for someone! Btw will you accept someone who is divorced and have some health issues, not saying you don’t deserve some healthy or single person, but acceptance goes both ways.
Raghav @r4gh4v
Yes. I will. There is no way to prove this but if things would have been opposite then I would have gone ahead.
Well yeah obviously he can still find love. Me being a girl, the only thing that matters to me to Loyalty. As long as loyalty is there, you got me bro 😜. And I am sure few girls out there have the same thoughts. It being 2022, I don’t think we can actually judge a guy based on whether he is divorced or not. A divorce does not make a female / man a bad person or whatever. Talking about health issues, thats also totally not his fault. So I don’t find any reason to ditch him as along as the vibes match, loyalty etc. Trust me, I am not typing it just for the sake of it. But I genuinely mean it and I can find myself accepting such guys. Hope this helped ;))
Raghav @r4gh4v
Yes, it did. Thanks 😊
Glad :)
Love knows no boundaries and I say this after having fallen for someone “socially inept” from my standpoint. If you really are a good guy, then its just about meeting that right person , just dont lose hope ever. However, dont get upset if you dont find someone for a while as it might take time for someone out there to reach you
Raghav @r4gh4v
Thanks
