My problem is with my sister and my aunt.
My aunt loves her the most. So my aunt doesnt really know that she is taking side but she does usually.
For eg; like today, My sis and I have to work at home and yes we divided our tasks.
The thing is
1. She usually changes the time table with an excuse while I cant
2. She has the right to make me go instead thats her day or duty WHILE I CANT.
She never listens to me but I have to listen to her.
If I dont do as she says, I become
1. The lazy
2. The ungrateful
3. The selfish
Even if I say thats not the case becoz thats her day and I also wanna have a rest & do what I like, my aunt just believe her and blames me for everything like I mentioned up there.
I also sometimes have hypertension but I never make her do my work. I believe that I have to fulfill it. I rarely have aches in my leg or foot. Even if I suffered, I never make her do my work.
My sis and my aunt like to say the word “You have to work for your family”, “Why cant you help out your sis, we are family”.
In reality, they never understand me. They just want ME to underatand them.
I can accept if I am not doing my job properly.
But I work and at the same time I am treated like I am doing nothing and got scolded for wanting to have my holidays???
Ok Fk it then.
Priya Wahi @priyawahi
Sorry for your struggling and it doesn’t seems the environment I want anyone to be.
Do you know, how better can we deal because biasedness is influenced by certain characteristics and nature.
Example, Indians love for Western countries a small reference.
Thanks for the reply. I somehow felt release when I pour out those words here. Thanks again.
