My partner is saying he is busy with work and not talking. Usually he sends me snaps and texts inbetween, but since two days he isn't talking at all. I am so scared. Is he losing interest in me or am I just assuming 🥺

5, 👀 2 are enough. Btw it wasn't funny at all

Still. Accept your are bad at jokes lol 😏

Long Distance Relationship

My boyfriend gave away our dog without letting me know. He bought her but I took care of her so I co owned the dog? He didn't take care of her, didn't take her to walks and I have seen him running to score weed and for football to which he responds I like doing it and that he didn't feel he could take her out everyday, one time I could have taken her out the other time him and his response to not telling me is that I would have talked him out of it. I fuckimg took care of her, more than him it was my dog sheis AN ANGEL so fuckimg calm I just feel out of place and I haven't stopped crying since yesterday I dunno what to do

I still can't believe I broke up. I was in a relationship with him for 2 years. I
He was very charming and sweet, later day by day i came to know about him. He told me about his past relationships and childhood trauma of father. I listened to everything and didn't judge him. Then after that i told him about my past. And he just became so angry, from then he took my insta, fb, google password and then no talking to boys. I tolerated that I thought I should do it cause I'm in a serious relationship. Then I don't know it's like he entered into my brain, and controlled each and everything in my life. But still I was so happy, I don't know why I let him do that. I was so madly in love and then his torture gradually increased and I got hurt. He just created a situation to break up. I had to.. And now I just feel guilty, still thinking if he's okay.. And that love feeling is just gone from my heart. I don't know what to do with my emotions.. 

3am Thoughts

My boyfriend and I (both 20) have been in a relationship for 3 years now. I was always insecure but having a boyfriend who "forgot" to tell me stuff just made it worse . Even the I trust him completely.. some things have decreased that trust a little.We were about to breakup last year because 2 of his friends (1 girl and 1 guy) hate me and kept constantly bullying me through sarcasm (taunts) about my insecurities but I he said I deserve better and can'tkeep hurting me. I wanted to give it one last try and I told him I want to confront those 2 friends and I want you to tell them to stay away from my business. We wanted to do this in 2020 but things came up and we decided to push it. It's 2021 now and he didn't bring it up once. I did. He said he told them the last time he met them to stay away. But the whole point was him saying it in front of me,with me.. which he is read to do again. When I asked him what he told them... he merely said he forgot. I cant stop crying because that conversation was very important to me... such an excuse .. after we came to that solution after going through so much..  I don't want to lose him.. but I can't translate every single thing to him.. when I told him I need him to remember else we're done... to my surprise he said do whatever you want to I don't know but I cant remember the conversation.. It's breaking my heart. He is the most selfless and kind person I've met and I love him but.  If this is how he wants to sort things out then I can't see a future with him. I also cant think of breaking up... please help me

Love

My Ex Boyfriend has just started working at a prestigious Company. I wake him him up every morning because he is not in habit of getting up early all by himself. Earlier he used to pick up my calls and get up . but gradually he stopped picking my calls, so i told himm i dont wanto calll and wake you up. on saying this he requested not to stop calling him. I followed. 
Everyday i am after him even after breakup for the namesake of friendship which remains ( For me i cannot be friends, i still have feelings). 
Today, one of his close friends called and spoke about a lot of things but it was that one particular thing that still remains in my head. 
She said, i am sorry but i never thought you guys will end up in a marriage. You both didnt seem to be together. 
And i felt like a retard, useless , looser and what not. 
In my mind i actually liked him, i strted looking out for future when he said its a breakup. I am still taking care of him because its his first time staying outside. 

but now i am emotionally exhausted. Everyday i am fighting with myself that why am i doing so much for him when doesn't even care to ask how am i doing. Or, what you did since morning. Or how is your health. 
I close my eyes and see people laughing at me and saying we told you this relationship wont last forever 


Breakup

Hi 👋 
It's my first time here hehe so this will be my first post.

Uhm, I haven't been in a relationship since birth, just have some crushes of course (and most of them are girls) but I'm already mid 20's and I don't but I just wanted suddenly to be in a relationship (I know it's not easy) maybe because during this lockdown I've been watching some romantic kdramas and movies that I'm picturing myself what if I have someone like those couples HAHAHA 

I've got some suitors back then who asked me on a date and agreed to come but then I find myself after couple of weeks loosing interests on those guys. I felt like I'm not good in keeping people :( 

So now this, I have a college classmates who had a crush on me and even helped me with my thesis back then which eventually stopped since I think he thought I took him for granted. 

He is now chatting me on messenger and talking about things, I don't know his motive but I'm still replying to his messages, but there's one time that I didn't reply after a week, I saw his tweet saying that if someone wants to play a game they should end it not leaving it's opponent halfway through. After reading that tweet I let couple of days passed by and reply to his messages HAHA I really don't know what he wants from me if he just wants to be friends or what. 

He's also asking me out after the lockdown but I told him that I will go only if we have one of my friend to come with us. I'm uncomfortable being around with guys alone. hmm. 





Relationships

You guys really need to help me here ok. Soo my bf who i love way too much and ik he loves me too ok but he ugh tbh i don’t have the words anymore i just need more love and attention from him and i feel like I’m the only one who’s putting in the efforts like i literally do anything for that guy and i can’t even think about leaving him cuz I’m soo in love.

Boyfriend

So I have came across toooo many people in my life who asks me to let go this relationship which I am since 5 years now !!  And it’s like from the very beginning the frnds I had the frnds I lost the frnds I have all asked me to just cut this crab !!! But the only issue comes here is how !? Idk how am I suppose to control my emotions for this particular guy I have been in love with , though Idk do I still actually love him after what we have been went through!!!! This relationship has been toxic as hell from the beginning itself still I ignored all the red flags he had or all the red flags this relationship had / has !!! 

Yes , I did loose tooo many good infact the best people because they just asked me to leave this person!!! Idk why from day one I was / am so much into him ! Even though he did Nthg so very special to me I guess ! Idk maybe he did , but when I think about it I rarely get points to actually think of !!!!! My life has been so fucked maybe because of him ! 

My all decisions my all thoughts always roamed around what he use to think !! Not now though but still sometimes maybe no not actually! But then this things comes in my mind that he’ll not like it ! But then damn it’s my life why did I gave my life to someone who is not able to figure out what he wants to do or what he is doing 😓

How am I supposed to stop thinking of him and start thinking of only myself!!! 
Why do I have a fear of loosing him , even when I should not because maybe he’s not understanding what I want or need in my life ! 

Ughhh too many questions, I’m so confused about each and every thing now ! 



Addiction

Hey guys,
I was in a relationship 4 years back, and he was too possessive and short tempered with ofcourse some wonderful qualities as well. We constantly had our fights and one day he raised his hand on me because of which I broke up with him and never looked back. Now after 4 years, i drunk called him and feel so guilty about it. Like i want to talk to him not because i want to get back, but because i feel lonely at times. Should o do it ? I mean it's so confusing. I remember what he did, but still I want to just talk. Can anyone say something which can make me feel less pathetic please

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