My parents tried to break up me and my boyfriend and now me and him have to lay low. My parents don’t really know my boyfriend but my boyfriend tryed to get to know them and get there trust and get approve to be with me and keep seeing me and my parents don’t care. My parents keep saying that i can not see him no more becaues his a little bit older then me. I feel bad that i’m keeping me and my boyfriend relationship away from my parents now becaues that tryed to break me and him up and i get they don’t thing his a good guy becaues he a befent age then me but i cant loss him and he cant loss me becaues i’m the only one he has talked to about his dads death to and he dose not trust any one but me, his mom, and his 2 friends he has been friends with scents they were every little.
Look girl he must be good in studies, helping you with it too. But just put yourself in your parents shoe, will you tell your daughter’s to focus on relationship more than studies. Listen even if you think it’s pure love and all then you guy’s haven’t seen the world yet. You are just in school bro. Complete study first.
Kebble_Pebble @kebble
I can’t date bc of my parents, but they are looking out for you. They think every guy/or girl is a bad influence because they are scared of losing you. I think you should try talking to them and prove to them. Sorry if I wasn’t any help-
i have try talking to my parents and prove it to them but they keep telling me that i cant date some one that’s 17 becaues i’m 15 even thought my boyfriend cares so much about me and he knows how important family is becaues he lost his dad last month and he would do anything to get more time with him and he understands that my parents want to keep me safe and they don’t think he’s a good influence to me and me and my boyfriend keep trying but my parents wont give him a chance.
Kebble_Pebble @kebble
Oh are they usually that strict?
Tia @tiamra
I get it this guy is making you feel special and somehow very important
Love at times clouds our better judgement of people’s character
But you should evaluate if this guy is more important than your parents
Your still too young for love and to understand it
I guess at times its not receiving enough love at home that make us seek love elsewhere
But just make sure not to destroy your life in the name of love that isn’t guaranteed that he will still feel the same way 5 years from now
