My mother is always comparing me with others and she demotivates me a lot and she said you cannot do anything in life you’re a failure you will not achieve anything … I’m getting weaker mentally . She hates me 😞 and so do I hate my self too I’m like an unwanted child . My life is miserable 😞😞😞
Your mom likes you very much and loves you so much than anyone else. Your mother comparing because she desperately wanted to see you like that. Understand from your mother prospects and explain her politely. You are young blood, more chances to get frustrate and anger. But, If you start control and watch those thoughts before reacting, then your mom will be your best friend. It is hard while deploying such things but possible.
She is there for you to either suggest or to order or to request. What if your mom had COVID and something happened to her unfortunately? See what is happening around us. Respect everyone and their thoughts. If you don’t like you should have strong point to explain and discuss with her. First observe your thoughts.
God Bless You
