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Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

My mother doesn’t think I’m emotionally mature enough to have independence.

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Anonymous

If she thinks like that most probably I guess you’re girl that’s why your mom thinking like that
Btw I’m not saying girls are not sufficient they’re great and do great thinks it’s just that the society is not that open Minded

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Funny, since I was actually born male.

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Anonymous

Ok you are boy than you’ve to act mature in front of your parents explain them that you’re capable and make decisions for yourself once they know you’re take your responsibility than they will understand you

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I don’t understand what you are saying

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Your grammar isn’t very good.

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Anonymous

Ohh sorry I’m Little weak in english but all I’m saying show your parents that you’re ready to take responsibility of yourself

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Anonymous

Btw how old are you?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

19

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Anonymous

Same than you’re in right age to ask for freedom bro

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Don’t call me bro, and asking for freedom didn’t help.

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Anonymous

Okay I was being kind sry
But you need to understand your parents too …

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I can’t understand her. I just want support, but she won’t do it because I’m struggling with depression.

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Anonymous

I can understand but can I ask why you think you’re not independent…if I can ask?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I have cerebral palsy

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

If I move out I’ll have no one to ask for help.

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Anonymous

As I seen on Google it’s showing movement issue can I ask what problem you face due to this condition everyday?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

My right hand and foot are what’s affected.

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Anonymous

Like how affected?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Muscles don’t function properly

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Anonymous

Is your hand shakes?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

No it’s just limp.

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Anonymous

I think they are just concern because of your medical condition…do you think that too?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

No, she just thinks I can’t handle a situation with emotional weight.

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Anonymous

Have you ever wondered what she thinks like that?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

It’s only because people do things that scare me.

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Anonymous

What things?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Like grab me by the shoulders, unannounced.

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Anonymous

You’ve to show your parents that you’re confident around people… That maybe solve your problem

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I don’t know how I can prove my emotional maturity.

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Anonymous

By being confident around people ok tell me one thing do you have friends? Like who understand you?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Only one, and I don’t see her often.

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I don’t even know where she lives.

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Anonymous

What how if she is your friend how you don’t know where she lives?

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Anonymous

Make more friends which will give you confidence and and your parents will also see that you can deal with people’s

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

She doesn’t share any personal info.

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I don’t know how to make friends, no one seems very interested in talking.

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Anonymous

Well I’m talking to you and it’s been interesting you know we can be friends if you want… Btw I’m boy too 19yr old

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Thing is, my mother is the type of person who believes everyone on online chatrooms are predators.

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

She actually wanted me to stop using this site/app for that reason.

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Anonymous

Okay but that doesn’t matter what you want that matters you want friends right? Like everyone

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Yeah, but I want to prover to her that I’m emotionally mature enough so she’ll let me live without her.

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Anonymous

How you don’t have any friends? What you’re student?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Yes I am, but no one seems interested. And those who so, are all buddy buddy even though I don’t recognise them or are just plain annoying and I want to get away from them.

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Anonymous

But you have to make friends and talk to someone?
Look around there will be someone who is suitable for you to be friends?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

It just never works out. People just don’t seek interested in me.

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

seem not seek

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Anonymous

Have you ever thought why they didn’t interested in you?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

No

Hidden Gem @sad_girl5

And how do you feel about your independence?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I doubt myself because of my cerebral palsy.

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