Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
My mother doesn’t think I’m emotionally mature enough to have independence.
If she thinks like that most probably I guess you’re girl that’s why your mom thinking like that
Btw I’m not saying girls are not sufficient they’re great and do great thinks it’s just that the society is not that open Minded
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Funny, since I was actually born male.
Ok you are boy than you’ve to act mature in front of your parents explain them that you’re capable and make decisions for yourself once they know you’re take your responsibility than they will understand you
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I don’t understand what you are saying
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Your grammar isn’t very good.
Ohh sorry I’m Little weak in english but all I’m saying show your parents that you’re ready to take responsibility of yourself
Btw how old are you?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
19
Same than you’re in right age to ask for freedom bro
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Don’t call me bro, and asking for freedom didn’t help.
Okay I was being kind sry
But you need to understand your parents too …
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I can’t understand her. I just want support, but she won’t do it because I’m struggling with depression.
I can understand but can I ask why you think you’re not independent…if I can ask?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I have cerebral palsy
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
If I move out I’ll have no one to ask for help.
As I seen on Google it’s showing movement issue can I ask what problem you face due to this condition everyday?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
My right hand and foot are what’s affected.
Like how affected?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Muscles don’t function properly
Is your hand shakes?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
No it’s just limp.
I think they are just concern because of your medical condition…do you think that too?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
No, she just thinks I can’t handle a situation with emotional weight.
Have you ever wondered what she thinks like that?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
It’s only because people do things that scare me.
What things?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Like grab me by the shoulders, unannounced.
You’ve to show your parents that you’re confident around people… That maybe solve your problem
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I don’t know how I can prove my emotional maturity.
By being confident around people ok tell me one thing do you have friends? Like who understand you?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Only one, and I don’t see her often.
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I don’t even know where she lives.
What how if she is your friend how you don’t know where she lives?
Make more friends which will give you confidence and and your parents will also see that you can deal with people’s
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
She doesn’t share any personal info.
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I don’t know how to make friends, no one seems very interested in talking.
Well I’m talking to you and it’s been interesting you know we can be friends if you want… Btw I’m boy too 19yr old
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Thing is, my mother is the type of person who believes everyone on online chatrooms are predators.
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
She actually wanted me to stop using this site/app for that reason.
Okay but that doesn’t matter what you want that matters you want friends right? Like everyone
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Yeah, but I want to prover to her that I’m emotionally mature enough so she’ll let me live without her.
How you don’t have any friends? What you’re student?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Yes I am, but no one seems interested. And those who so, are all buddy buddy even though I don’t recognise them or are just plain annoying and I want to get away from them.
But you have to make friends and talk to someone?
Look around there will be someone who is suitable for you to be friends?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
It just never works out. People just don’t seek interested in me.
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
seem not seek
Have you ever thought why they didn’t interested in you?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
No
Hidden Gem @sad_girl5
And how do you feel about your independence?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I doubt myself because of my cerebral palsy.