My mom and I fight pretty often and get into yelling arguments about things we disagree on… but sometimes on some days she loses her anger and stress out on me and it comes out through calling me names or hitting me and it really hurts. I try snd control it by holding her hands but I still get wounded… today she hit me for raising my voice at her and continued to hit me when I walked out of the room… when I held both her hands with my hands her nails dug into my arms and formed 4 scars and started bleeding… she calls me names like slut whore and bitch while yelling too and there’s no one I can tell my father and brother have seen this happen… sometimes she even throws anything in her hand at me if she’s sitting at a distance. Once she threw a glass of water and another time she threw a loaf of bread. She is on some medicines which may cause her to be moody but I still don’t feel this is right… she’s always threatening me and telling me I’m the cause of her illness when that isn’t true at all she just wants me to feel guilty. I don’t know what to do I try not to get her mad but she hates me so much and I’m starting to think I feel the same… this isn’t what a mom is supposed to be like.
Sanjay @knowshowitfeelslik...
Idk what to say but thats actually sad
How could a mother can do that.
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I suggest you to clear things out between you and your mother in front of your father and brother.
And you should ask her what she want …
Maybe this helps
And you know your situation well so do what is right for you and your family 😢
Girls I commend your endurance and state of mind. And I know you are going through hell that most of us don’t go through after reading this passage. What your mom is doing is absolutely horrendous. And I would recommend if your father and brother support you then stay away from your house. If you are far away then there are chances that you can get peace of mind.
If your family don’t support you and you are 18+. Then start searching online for jobs and good university (please be careful of scams during the search.). And shift away from your parents.
And if your parents don’t support you and you are a minor, then start learning skills for jobs and start studying through which you can get into a good college with scholarship.
Also, start training you body fro self defence. You can start with body weight training, and boxing.
And in the end, tolerate till it’s ok and counter after the limit is cross. Because if you stay the same then you will be easy target who will be attacked whole life. Learn to fight
Moms are supposed to love their kids and that’s on periodt. Sis move out of the toxic place stay at any relative’s or rent a place. If you can’t create boundaries and ask her to respect it. Try talking to your brother or dad. Seek help hun
