My life is so fucked up I lost my father when I was 12 and my maternal uncle is managing all of our expenses since then but there is one problem I m a girl and I canβt travel anywhere without his permission and the fact is my uncle doesnβt allow me to go anywhere except collegeI know his concern is genuine but I wamt to travel and I canβt quit my studies now because I want to PhD I m getting schlorship for that but without travelling I feel suffocated what should I doπππππ
You have to fight for what you want find middle ground talk to them say what you want let them say what they think and decide mutually.but u canβt keep staying at one place you wonβt grow like that you need to go out take your uncle also show him the new place let him stay there for few days once he will trust everything is fine he might let u stay alone but donβt break his trust
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He wants you to be totally independent, then travel as much as you want :)
Hey dear⦠you are doing great. You have come this far. To do a PhD is a big thing itself. You have to make your uncle realise that you have become independent and can take care of yourself.
Try doing little daily things on your own like going to college aloneβ¦ doing daily work independentlyβ¦ managing you moneyβ¦ investment etc introduce your friends to him β¦ then only he would be able to understand that you can travel on your own. This may take some time so be patient and work towards your freedom. π€π€π€π€π€