my life is falling apart…and i want to get out of this house and be with my friends but my parents doesn’t allow me to go anywhere…i feel suffocating in this house… can anyone give me tips…i just feel like running away 😭
somebody up for a talk?
Hey
Your still young, be calm. Your parents only wants what is good for you.
im not that young…the problem is I’m a female…💔
Talk to your parents about ur thoughts… Explain ur feeling… Try it with ur mom first
my mom always says ask your father… some time i feel like never talking to my family again i hate them … the only way to connect with my friends is my phone
Have u try to talk to father? Just try sometimes…
he is affection less… he just don’t care… all they try is to control me… and the more they try …the more i wanna run away
Are u student or working? We feel that way that the more they control us the more we are likely to run away… What if ur friends is the one to visit you at ur home… Will that be okay?
im a student…they don’t even allow me to work… this house make feel like I’m in prison or something… they’re kinda busy so it’s not possible for them to come here…
Are u studying in school or still online? Try to escape sometimes like telling having some school projects… Now am telling u to escape at times but dont get caught… escape and come back but make believable reason to them.
its offline…yea that’s what i thought to lie to them… but when i see my friends and their parents i feel jealous … andd…i feel shit
Honey! Hold on try to make ur parents understand what u r missing. May be they r just worried that u may spoil il. If they don’t understand u find ur own ways to be happy until u r independent. When you think u r independent u can leave the house. More power to u ❤️
i wish they understood me … they say i can do whatever i want only after marriage… and I’m too young for marriage…im just 18… nobody understands me in my house all are against me … i have no freedom… and thats make me feel like running away
A @tripathi
Even though all parents want the best for their child, sometimes the boundaries are too tough for children to accept and to understand that they’re for their own good. Both are at fault here.
What you can do as a child is to show your parents, not just by talks, but by actions that helps them understand you’re a mature girl now. Different families have different kinds of mature, do I can’t tell you what to do exactly, but try looking up to an elder sibling.
Also, you’re simply not as mature as you think you’re. Just accept this fact as it is because your growing young brain wouldn’t agree.
So, keep talking to your parents and try to act more maturely. You’d get your freedom slowly on time and you’d be happy too. Try asking for smaller freedoms, then start increasing the circle.
thank you ❤️…this might actually help 🥺
