Arushi dash @smily17
MY LIFE - A PROPER MESS
Hi, Im from India.
First of all i Hate my family which includes- my mother,father,grandpa,grandma and my sis
They all are TOXIC.
Lets start from my MOTHER -
I call her Satan’s wife, She’s a proper slut. Cheating on her husband by 2 more men. YEAH and only i know that she is cheating and she ofc has no idea of it.
On October 2021 I saw her whatsapp chats with her bf’s. I took there screenshots for proof cause she deletes the chats. The screenshots are still saved in my file safe that can only open with my fingerprint.
I’m MASTERMIND right ?! I know…
Its May 2022, She still has no idea that her screenshots are saved in file safe.
NOW its my FATHER’s turn -
SATAN himself… Still watches porn and dint remove history… And yeah only i know this, Again took a screenshot and saved… ITS OK ,leave it ,I excuse…
BUT the actual problem is he has a problem with my everything like activities ,cooking (though i do it only once in a month) ,experiments (though i do it rarely) ,digital photography ,my youtube channel (cause y not) ,crafting ,playing ,my friends ( cause they are BOYS)…
There’s more but LEAVE…
GRANDMA - This old BASTARD has a habit to fill my parents ears so they can scold or ground me from everything. She has to put her nose everywhere.
Let me give an example from yesterday-
There was a party. I was sitting with my frnds (4 boys and 2 girls) cause mom told to stay aside.
Mygrandma came from nowhere, took a peek and went home… nothing happened… BUT… TODAY from morning she started…
I was too sticky with the boys, my mom dosent take care of me, i am a very bad, ill mannered girl, and all that…
So did mom started and when dad will come home they all will start again…
NOW IM GROUNDED BECAUSE OF THIS OLD WITCH…
GRANDPA - Nothing much to this man. He just loves to irritate,torture and break me, and if I say anything, complains to my Mom and dad that i’m raising voice and dont respect hiim and all.
MY SISTER- She’s just 3 years old but knows how to lie… COMES… BEATS me… and goes to mom and says that im beating her. And if i really just touch her
She’ll shed crocodile tears and then comes my mom…
IF these things werent enough now comes my bullies and female frenemy’s
I cant tell about how they tortute me…
After all Im in DEPRESSION and in the verge of SUCIDE
I hope ya’ll are OK…
Life’s unfair
GOODBYE…
Mayank @true_who
I actually donno what to tell as it’s ur family. Is there anything I can help u?
Arushi dash @smily17
hm family only by name but actually they are like devils for me…
Mayank @true_who
Look every fam has certain issues. But u hve to handle it by urself coz it learns u many things. Kabhi bhi kuch batana ho toh bata sakti ho.
Mr. Wick @dexter0911
You are telling all this like only you are a good human in your family…
Rest all are evil or moron…
Aur itna hi prob hai to why dont you just leave them …
Arushi dash @smily17
im not telling that im only good im just telling that im SUFFERING
and yeah i did leave them but where do this little introvert ass go then
apke ghar mei
Mr. Wick @dexter0911
See … you are welcome in my home… but the things you are saying are compeletely wrong.
You need to practice patience and gratitude. You need to learn tolrance. . What do you think sabki life easy hai …
Sabki choddo think about your own family members. You have any idea of hardships of your mom dad grandparents .
You are in so much of comfortzone as compared to them … you only see flaws … you never see the things which are in favour of you. Btw how old are you?
buddy I accept that parents go through hardship but we do not know how it is when you get to know your mother has an affair ?
Mr. Wick @dexter0911
Thats her personal life which isnt affecting me actually…
And her affair is prob of her husband not of her children …
She is not guilty as a mother
So you are saying if someone’s mother has affair with people then their children should not bother about it?
You are saying her mother is not guilty… she is having affairs…and the grandmother lied about this kid being ill mannered without proof and she shouted at this kid. Why did she shout at her kid ? she should not she is having affairs and the kid was just with friends ?
Mr. Wick @dexter0911
Wait have you seen or met your mom’s boyfriend?
And whatever is happening is inside four walls of home … so it should be there because making it public is a prob for you only
why are you asking me I am not the post owner ?
Mr. Wick @dexter0911
Oops i am sorry i havent noticed when you jumped in 😔😔😔
Really sorry
Sincere aplogies offered 🙏
Arushi dash @smily17
see mr.wick im thankful to my parents about wut they did. i know im at fault somewhere too and i’m tolerating everyday. i dont need anybody to teach me and yeah maybe they have had hardships. but for me the cheating and all is too much so i came here for some sympathy and courage and many people did that so im thankful very much. and if u dint like this so im sorry to bother u. my fault. and btw im just 13
Arushi dash @smily17
im sorry u had to raise voice but thankuu very much for supporting and yeah i think its my fault so i appologise
Mr. Wick @dexter0911
I appreciate what you said … but remember never seek sympathy … it will make you weak.
Rest about courage … i told you you need to practice patience and tolrance … that will only help you winning battles of life and relationships … 😊 you are so young like you should not take all these issues…
Its your age for fun and learning…
Family issues par focus mat karo…
Arushi dash @smily17
thankss but life is fuckin hard
I know it’s their life and we do not know what is happening between them… but what I think it her mother having an affair would definitely affect her or anyone for that matter… the reason for doing this by her mother might be valid or not we do not know but then still…
appreciate what you said to her buddy…
Mr. Wick @dexter0911
Understand a simple logic… mother can never have a affair… a wife can…
I hope you understands this.
Let her mother be happy if its not harming … and i am sure as a mother she will never do anything that may harm her children
Arushi dash @smily17
btw u re right like its affecting but although she’s my mother
thanks broo
Mr. Wick @dexter0911
I am glad you got this 😊
Arushi dash @smily17
yeah it affects but wut he said is alsoo right
she’s my MOTHER
I know…
just hoping everything get’s good in your family.
and take care.
Arushi dash @smily17
thankss i just needed a lil courage and yeah i hope soo
So sorry you have to go through all this.
But you have to try and stay strong through this until you are independent.
Focus on yourself and your growth. What are you studying now btw?
Arushi dash @smily17
grade 7